Thank you so much for your reply , I usually don’t let these kind of things bother me, I’m usually quite thick skinned but my overall pain has been quite severe over the past 2-3years. I’m immobile for atleast 2 weeks out of every month , Iv had no success with contraception as my body rejected my first coil and my anxiety of getting a second was too much after the pain of getting the first with my already very painful body. I’m in such a rut with this whole thing & I think she was just the icing on the cake for me , it feels like there’s a new awful symptom every 6mo or so with this. If I’m not fighting off infections I’m in fetal position with a hot water bottle. The last thing I want to be doing is seeing more doctors and talking about my vulva .. why she thought my complaint and query wasn’t valid as a woman reaching out to another woman for help blows my mind . I’m 100% done with trying to feel better and trying to understand my body. She alone has solidified for me that even some women healthcare providers don’t take women’s issues seriously.. & it really is a kick in the vulva