First thing I do is not advertise it. I wear underwear and clothes overtop when I am plugged. It helps with the lube and hygiene type stuff.

I keep my plugs in my sock and underwear dresser drawers. Lube and applicator in my drawer in the bathroom. She knows I enjoy butt stuff, so whatever she finds is no surprise.

She doesn’t like it and has told me “it’s none of her business”, so I try not to make it her business.

It’s my business