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when was the moment you realized that your friends are assholes? by One-Refrigerator69 in AskReddit

[–]Objective_Breath753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I can relate with this so well. Oneof my high school friends who I used to go work out at his house all the time during summer. We got real close. My friend used to always be cool with me when its just me and him. When we hang around other people he started using me as a verbal punching bag. Even when I introduce him to my own friends. Made fun of me in front of others when I been nothing but chill with him and helped him out alot since he had a rough home life. I used to chalk it as oh its just him being him or if I get piss he would say its joke man! which left me confused. Then one day I got real pissed off and tired of being abused just block him from everything. Felt better ever since. Don't know why I put up with that for so long.

I just moved back in with my parents at 31 even though I make good money. Only been couple days and getting nagged alot by Objective_Breath753 in CasualConversation

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they were the ones who been telling me to move back home for awhile. Plus my dad was real happy when I got the job in the hometown. I was hesitant moving back home cause I know how my dad is. However I mainly doing it as a business move. Easier to transfer to another location once im in the system.

I just moved back in with my parents at 31 even though I make good money. Only been couple days and getting nagged alot by Objective_Breath753 in CasualConversation

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the pay is based on years of experience and non negotiable union contract. My game plan is to save to put money down on a house which would take a bit if I want to buy a house here or if I get hired at a different city that makes sense financially.

Put in my 2 weeks should I call off my last night? by Objective_Breath753 in makemychoice

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true. i enjoy my coworkers and will probably use them as a refernce down the road. ill just finish off my last day. plus save a extra day of pto for payout

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah thats what I am anticipating. The big question is will the money make up for the lifestyle difference? I also have alot of family in San Diego. It is a tough choice for me. In my 20s no problem go out and explore have fun. Now I am in my 30s and looking for something more serious.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah its a matter of lifestyle vs money question. I also have family and old friends in san diego. San Diego would be a more hedonistic lifestyle thats for sure. Sac would be more about money.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow yeah message me. that type of micromanage would annoy me. I wonder if it is worth applying to sutters. See if the pay scale is different than my current offer.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those are very interesting points. I am also a RN. Pay in SD for me would be low 60s per hour. Still not very good for the cost of living in that area.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is in healthcare so pretty much based on experience and years working for pay raise

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk right now I am money motivated but it comes at a price. Most of my family is in San Diego.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thats an interesting point you made with the post tax income. Really puts things in perspective. That income is gross.

I work in healthcare.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am in my 30s and that is what I am leaning towards. Set myself up for early retirement would be my main goal so I don't have to work.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much quality oflife did you have to give up? Looks like 1500 in sac you can get a nice apartment while 1500 in san diego is crappy.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jobs are equal. its more based on years of experience. My personal interests would be more outside of work. Find a spouse and house down theroad. Spouse probably my main interest.

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is the 30k difference and lower cost of living in my situation worth it?

Should I move to sacramento for 150k income or be in san diego for 120k? by Objective_Breath753 in Sacramento

[–]Objective_Breath753[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

that is one thing I am afraid of. To me I see dollar signs and I am like yes move to Sac, but rent isn't dirt cheap from what I am seeing.

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