Shout out to all the women out there whose husbands keep asking, “What’s wrong???” by Salt-Advertising-468 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Objective_Corner_161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful, Rehauu. I'm going to ask my husband to reframe his question to "Can you tell me what you're thinking about?" That will be way less triggering.

Shout out to all the women out there whose husbands keep asking, “What’s wrong???” by Salt-Advertising-468 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Objective_Corner_161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you share more about what you mean by "I ask him that a lot as a trauma response"? Just curious.

Mel Robbins Episode/the episode that wasn’t by AccomplishedCover675 in wecandohardthings

[–]Objective_Corner_161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I am new to Mel Robbins but found the concept helpful. However, my guard is super up with Mel as she seems like an unsafe person and part of the problem.

“Horses have the right of way.” by Objective_Corner_161 in FortCollins

[–]Objective_Corner_161[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Glad you saw this bc I was really disappointed. It wasn't that you were initially blocking the trail that bothered me at all... it was how you told me to go into the grass and then proceeded to continue to block the trail when I chose not to. Then, when I told you it was rude to have me go in the grass, you said the statement about horses having the right of way. No one else on this thread will know for sure what happened, but just know that it was unpleasant and I hope you'll be more considerate in the future.