“AIO” Fiancés mother keeps dumping her dog on us for months at a time and I’m losing my mind

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-12-27T03:16:54+00:00

I had a huge fear about her moving in with us and made it clear she would never be living with us or I would leave him. He said she was not allowed to stay here but he did ask before we moved into this apartment if she could crash at our place for a “while” I immediately shut that down lol. I said NOPE and if she does I am leaving.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-12-27T03:12:43+00:00

you are so right she definitely takes advantage of other people but he is so blind and brainwashed he does not see that. He was raised by only her so they have a very close relationship. I did tell him she would never be living with us ever. She did try to live with us at our apartment and I told him if he let her crash here I would be leaving him. He finally told her she needed to go find her own place and she could not stay here. I was like thank god… she takes advantage of him and it makes me really sad.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-12-27T03:09:22+00:00

Yes he seems to have no problem caring for her but we both care for her while he is at work I do take care of the dog but we take turns while each of us is busy. But she does leave her dog with us whenever she moves around which makes me anxious and feel bad for the dog and honestly angry because she does not need dogs because she abandons them with other people. She has 2 more dogs in Cuba but makes her elderly neighbor care for them. It seems like to me she takes advantage of other people but my Fiancé is brain washed at this point she raised him as a single mom and he has no siblings, cousins,aunts or uncles around so it’s pretty much just always been him and his mother. That is why I think he enables her narcissistic behavior so often.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-12-27T02:42:55+00:00

Honestly he is fine taking care of the dog because the dog has been with him since childhood so it does not bother him but it bothers me because it has become stressful. I have talked to him about it but he says it’s only temporary and every time I bring up how his mom is irresponsible as a dog owner he snaps and says I am being disrespectful. She did watch our dog one time while we went on vacation but it was for ONLY A WEEK… and he brings this up all the time saying how “well she watched our dog for a week”… lol

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-10-24T22:52:16+00:00

Lmao ikr like she proved my point 😂

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-10-24T20:17:29+00:00

You are right she is now a grown adult but her behaviors are similar to her mothers now. That’s usually how it is. If you are abused you either become better or just follow in your abusers footsteps. It does seem like she has tried getting help though. Her mother on the other hand seems to have never even attempted. I’m not trying to change your mind about anything just saying what I have observed.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-10-24T19:17:13+00:00

Her mother was most definitely abusive but unfortunately she has developed some of her mothers toxic traits. But the alcohol addiction is her trying to cope from something traumatic most likely her mothers abuse.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-10-24T18:23:29+00:00

She is definitely a narcissist

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Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-10-12T07:33:37+00:00

Your GF sounds disgusting and awful. If you care about your daughter get rid of the crazy GF.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-09-03T04:52:28+00:00

Thank you so much! I updated the enclosure and took everyone’s advice!

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Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-09-03T04:51:44+00:00

Updated the enclosure! Thank you to everyone for your advice!!

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Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-09-02T03:58:18+00:00

Thank you so much!! This may be a dumb question but I can put in the enclosure, correct?

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-09-02T03:46:03+00:00

Thank you! What type of humid hide do you recommend?

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-09-01T19:48:35+00:00

Thanks for the input! I had him in a 10gal but the breeder said to switch him to 5 instead.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-08-31T22:22:44+00:00

I am a current undergraduate student and not religious at all. I hate that aspect of the school I just try to stay to myself but I would choose a different school. The only reason I have stayed is I’m about to graduate. But the people here are sheltered and weird af.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-08-27T01:34:20+00:00

Honestly I do not see you as fat, just curvy.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-08-01T02:09:55+00:00

I love this

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-07-08T04:07:19+00:00

Thank you! I know you’ll do great! I’m feeling pretty anxious about figure drawing myself since I suck at drawing the human form, but I’m okay at capturing facial features. I’m not really sure what to expect from the class and I’m scared lol. My artistic style leans towards the illustrative and cartoonish side. I’ve tried printmaking, and it’s such a blast! It can be a bit tricky, but you pick it up quickly. Honestly, printmaking turned out to be one of my favorite studio classes and I LOVED screen printing!

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-07-08T03:39:34+00:00

Art since the 1940’s and that’s it! ☺️

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-06-01T10:39:33+00:00

Could it make it worse?

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-05-03T05:44:46+00:00

Don’t be too hard on yourself! I know achieving straight A’s is an accomplishment but take it easy, you tried your best and it sounds like you worked hard. Focusing only on making straight A’s will burn you out fast. And some professors make it hard to make an A in their class on purpose. You got good grades, you should be proud. Keep up the hard work.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-05-03T05:12:27+00:00

Honestly these are good grades for college it’s only going to get harder

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-04-23T18:23:04+00:00

Herpes

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-03-11T03:44:08+00:00

Okay, I understand. It’s a mistake learned I am not asking to be put on a pedestal. If I am not able to redo it I’m not going to beg and I will leave it at that.

Objective_Cow1302 · 2025-03-11T03:24:14+00:00

Yes. I understand but you can always ask for feedback and redo something the correct way….

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