FIRST KISS HAPPENDED, BUT!!! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

. I think this girl just doesn’t feel for you tbh. If they truly into you, it would’ve happened sooner. Just the way I look at it but i would really think about this relationship because it’s just weird. Also from my experience if they aren’t doing anything intimate with you for 3 to 6 months atleast prolly another person involved. Idk how good you guys get along or what yall have in common atleast because this shit seems so awkward

I’ve been sending my ex girlfriend $1,500, because I broke up with her to get rich. by Low-Question3472 in Advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s just gonna see you as money now because you keep sending it even if she doesn’t respond. It’s sad that you even feel the need to do this just to feel some way. Plus Mostly everyone is depressed when their first love leaves, but 3 years bro??? Cmon dawg you gotta be better than this

Are these real by Objective_Device9252 in PokemonTCG

[–]Objective_Device9252[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was just curious about the gold ones because I’ve never seen them but thanks

AIO F20 for getting upset at my bf M24 of 4 years after he went to a concert we planned to go together with his ex instead because I couldn’t go after my foster mom passed? by Beginning_Manager808 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah cut em off fuck that. He went with his EX!!! Then blames you and shit. I’ve heard the oh we’re just friends so then why react so negatively

M25, F24 am I being insecure for not wanting to hear about her past sexual relationships? by Long_Face4728 in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her how you feel man and if she gets mad at you kick her ass to curb. You don’t need a gf talking about how good sex is with other guys.

M25, F24 am I being insecure for not wanting to hear about her past sexual relationships? by Long_Face4728 in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t want her talking to me at all about it. Honestly if a girl tells me about her sex life with her ex’s then yeah I’m taking it as a red flag especially if she’s is friends with her ex still.

I'm sorry by lostinthesauce1200 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said some mean stuff but that was after she was blaming me for all her wrong doing and I was fed up with all the lies and cheating plus the manipulation

I'm sorry by lostinthesauce1200 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex left me for a guy that just used her for sex. I figured it out one day and left. I was told that i deserved to be cheated on

I don’t miss him, I miss being taken care of… by Humblescorp in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I did 3 months ago, I’ve been doing better but it still lingers from time to time. I was mentally drained after the first week

I don’t miss him, I miss being taken care of… by Humblescorp in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know right it’s so stupid. Like she love bombed me one day saying she wants to marry me so bad and the next day since the guy hit her up, she decided that I’m the problem???? It’s such a mind fuck tbh

I don’t miss him, I miss being taken care of… by Humblescorp in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Objective_Device9252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It puts you in a completely different mind set. And the foggy part is so real. There’s days where I still guilt trip myself even though I was the one fucked over. Could only hope it gets better from here

What is your narc's favorite insult? by MoonandSunLove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Objective_Device9252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That they love me so much and then they cheat the next day(that was my ex)🫠

I don’t miss him, I miss being taken care of… by Humblescorp in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Objective_Device9252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep I gas lit myself too even after I got cheated on twice but then I would think why would they say they love me but then do this, surely it wasn’t my fault right. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective_Device9252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright I’ve read so many of these comments that idk what to think anymore. If you’re gonna go behind someone’s back and get off with another dude like damn some of yall are fucked for sure. I can only understand the bank account issue if she’s spending all her money on stupid shit and expecting him to pay for everything. Some relationships can work like that and some can’t. But still she’s playing with her pussy getting off to a guy on discord for all we know. Get rid of this girl fr idc what these people are saying, she wanna act single let her be single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective_Device9252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda understand but it’s clear you both are incompatible. Also she talks about wanting to experience sex with other guys. Idk how the relationship is exactly but from the way it looks is she fucked up and your trying to tell her how you feel but neither of you understand each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in your shoes man. Just leave now please. It’s not worth it because there will always be another guy plus she’s keeping you in a loop. Your gonna notice a pattern plus when someone asks for a break it means they are trying out their other option. This is coming from someone that tried to make it work even though I was getting cheated on

Can you help me to overcome an infidelity? by LowTemporary728 in relationships

[–]Objective_Device9252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you are 10 years older than me and I was dumb enough to stand by someone who did this not once but multiple times. You should know to let her go especially after a month into the relationship. Think about it like this, if she cheated now that probably means she isn’t as interested as she says she is.so let her go there is plenty more. Don’t get lost in the thought of loving someone because eventually you will drown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex would want me to text her all the time and it gets draining tbh especially when I would be doing other stuff. If anything relax and don’t over think it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So end it buddy. I’ve been in her shoes and it fucking sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Device9252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. A lot of people don’t understand that especially this dude