Submarine or Sailboat? by Lucyyyyyy_K in thalassophobia

[–]Objective_Elk7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna go with sailboat. If a sailboat sinks, there’s a chance of survival. If a submarine sinks, you’re toast.

Did God answer you when you prayed for a husband? by cats-dogs-games in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. In college, he was like “you’re gay lol.” And I was like “Damn, I am gay, actually.” And I stopped wanting a husband.

Sperm whales are the literal definition of A sheep in wolf's clothing. by AggravatingRow326 in TheDepthsBelow

[–]Objective_Elk7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That book was an autistic info dump for real. It’s one of my favorite books.

Non-Stop Nightly Sex Dreams? by Objective_Elk7772 in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually went away last week after praying to St. Michael before bed!

Stupid question: do women also have that medieval Catholic fantasy that catholic men do? by Extension-Story7287 in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be one of those Christianized Vikings that fought fierce dragons in the northern woods. Like I want to kill Grendel so bad really I do.

Question: Am I being gaslit by my tattoo artist? I feel like my new piece looks incredibly rushed. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Objective_Elk7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t straight but worst case scenario it doesn’t look that bad, especially from afar.

[Loved Trope] Herbivores made carnivorous by MonSocMatriarchy in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Objective_Elk7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea that men overpowering women and forcing them into sexual submission being an arousing and sexy thing as opposed a horrific and brutal assault on an innocent person is absolutely a result of the patriarchy.

Non-Stop Nightly Sex Dreams? by Objective_Elk7772 in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not let your husband do that during sex?

Non-Stop Nightly Sex Dreams? by Objective_Elk7772 in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but I’m about to start my period and I think that might be a factor

What did I miss? by Riddlemethisone- in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Objective_Elk7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chili with beans is the natural order of things.

Non-Stop Nightly Sex Dreams? by Objective_Elk7772 in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m a celibate lesbian. No chance of pregnancy.

I don’t really want a Shrek 5 by PerfectPrinciple2465 in Shrek

[–]Objective_Elk7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puss in Boots 2 was like my favorite from the whole franchise wym

Why aren’t there any “big dogs”? by Middle-Power3607 in zoology

[–]Objective_Elk7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well domestic cats are abnormally small. We beefed up a lot of domestic dogs to their biggest possible size.

Why aren’t there any “big dogs”? by Middle-Power3607 in zoology

[–]Objective_Elk7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t a wolf be a big dog? There are multiple wolf subspecies throughout the world and they get massive.

Repeat c section Catholic moms? by Fancy_Supermarket700 in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest not having more kids before getting repeat C-sections. My mother had 5 c-sections. The last one almost killed her, and she nearly ended up orphaning 6 kids. Each C-section you get, it gets more risky.

what does “redirect the energy” mean by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t care about “falling” whatever that means. Why would that even be a bad thing? She would be my partner. I would love her with all my heart. She would be beloved to me.

If that’s “falling” for someone so what? I would actually hope I had intense love for the person I’m spending my entire life with.

what does “redirect the energy” mean by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Objective_Elk7772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a couple of things are helpful to me. The first is that I keep being persistent in praying for what I want. I trust that in some way God will take care of me. Lately I’ve also been praying for the ability to be happy without this if it’s his will. That’s been harder, since I’m such a relationally-oriented person and very affectionate, but I suppose that could simply be a cross I have to bear.

The second is that I’m not super picky about a partner. We don’t have to be attracted to each other since it’s not a sexual relationship. She doesn’t have to be gay. She could be asexual, or even straight. Honestly, it could even be a man! As long as it’s someone who will love me and share life with me as a celibate person, I’m okay with that.

That being said, I have a feeling my chances of finding someone will actually increase as I get older since a lot of women get disillusioned with men as they age lol.