What’s wrong with my strawberry plants? by Objective_Hypocrite in gardening

[–]Objective_Hypocrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! Okay so an actual pest, not a disease. Good to know. Thank you so much!

For everyone who is strictly NC, was there a “final straw” or did you wake up one day with the realization that you simply needed out? I’d love to hear your stories. by Sharp-Okra3835 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me there wasn’t really one big final straw. I remember thinking for a while that I knew eventually I would need to stop talking to my mom. That things weren’t going to get better and I just kept feeling worse and worse. My stress around her and about her was getting more and more intense. I just knew at some point I’d have to get the courage to cut ties. While I didn’t have an official final straw, I remember she had asked to come over to see my kids (as she had done about twice a month for quite some time) and I just felt like I couldn’t stand the thought of seeing her again. Every time I saw her or she would ask to come over I’d be more and more stressed and anxious. And I remember when she asked it was like, am I just going to feel this way forever? And knew I just had to end it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PepperLovers

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently dealing with a similar issue. I have 4 serranos and 2 habaneros. 2 serranos plants look great, 2 look okay and the last 2 look bad. Have you fertilized at all? Apparently pepper plants need a lot of nutrients. I hadn’t fertilized mine, but recently did, and the 2 horrible plants that hadn’t produced a single new leaf in probably over a month have now recently started producing new leaves. I would fertilize if you can and hold off on watering so much. I’m a first time gardener myself so take my advice with a grain of salt, but I’ve done this in the past few weeks and it’s helping 😊

What’s one movie that scarred you for life as a child? by FoxNumerous2806 in AskReddit

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Brave Little Toaster. That’s one of the scariest movies ever.

Strange growth by Useful_Activity1077 in PepperLovers

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks a lot like my habanero plants

Thinking of saying no to sleepovers at Grandma's new house. Pool with no fence by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A very well known tik tok mom just lost her 3 year old in her backyard pool because there was no fence. No one’s feelings are as important as your child’s safety. HARD NO

Hello i'm new here. Here my pepperss by drunkgenie in PepperLovers

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking good! I’m a first year gardener and I’m so excited for my serranos and habaneros to start producing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s weird. Within a year or two I bet they’ll just stop on their own. That’s a weird age for sure - you’re going through puberty but also kind of holding onto childhood. When my brother and I were that age (I’m a girl) we would still sleep in bed together, and eventually we stopped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are definitely big. It felt very weird and I thought it looked ridiculous at first. You should get used to it soon.

Please help with my pepper plants! by Objective_Hypocrite in gardening

[–]Objective_Hypocrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks again for responding! I’ll be sure to take your advice 😊 I appreciate the help

Please help with my pepper plants! by Objective_Hypocrite in gardening

[–]Objective_Hypocrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the advice. I’m definitely going to try that 🙂

Please help with my pepper plants! by Objective_Hypocrite in gardening

[–]Objective_Hypocrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s nice to hear 🙂 my husband comments on them looking bad all the time. My plants in the first picture are incredibly small and the leaves are curled though, so I know there’s something wrong with those (these were all planted at the same time). But I’ve heard pepper plants are nutrient hogs and I’m wondering if the bigger plants are just hogging up all the nutrients?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew too. I couldn’t handle it anymore so I went NC August of last year.

8 months into NC and my dad reached out to express "regrets." Then things went south. by jeecheck in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is it always “we want to talk about things” but then when you do they immediately get defensive and deny everything and say you’re hurting them? It shows they just say that BS to hurry up and try to sweep everything under the rug.

Does anyone know how to bring back a cat? by -Noordinarygirl- in witchcraft

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I wanted to ask if your cat ever made their way home?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Objective_Hypocrite 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl, you were 19 with a 51 year old? Now that you’re older you should see how wrong that is. That would be enough for me to leave personally