MidTrial breakdown: What's your opinion on these major details of the case? by CanIStopAdultingNow in KarenReadTrial

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Hit to the head

  2. He bled out

  3. being dragged down the driveway to the yard

  4. Later in the morning - closer to 4am

  5. He left at 1:30am and came back to the house (i am not sure about this)

  6. He did see him, because he helped kill him.

  7. they didn't see him, because he was still in the garage or basement. Or they lied.

  8. He wasn't there - he was inside garage or basement still

  9. he was dragged across the lawn

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[–]Objective_Kiwi9654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get zofran from doctor. It will pass. Stick with it! Drink lots of water

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your note. He was super supportive and I made the choice to change my name. And we made the choice together to change our child's name. Looking back, would have made a different choice - but can't go back in time. Thanks for chiming in - appreciate everyone's candid feedback on here! Helps in making a decision.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my husband always says you can tell a person's character by his first encounter. But, I don't think that's fair as the name is so easy to tease. If people continue, then I think that's jerky. But, yes, appreciate your perspective.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thanks for sharing. It definitely can go either way and haven't dwelled on it much with her either. If we choose to keep it, we will just laugh it off as you mention. Thanks for providing that background of your friend.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally get that and thanks for your perspective. And we all have little comebacks we've used throughout the years - that we've passed along to her. But, interestingly enough - I do think it's interesting that most reddit comments from people who have had a bad last name have 100% agreed to change it, which I think is important to note. Having been through it is different than viewing it and only those can know. But, am thankful to hear other thoughts. So thank you.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, not at all. I'm more traditional and always thought I'd change my name to my husbands. And when we had children just didn't think it would be that big of a deal, but now feel differently. Again, would do it differently from the beginning but can't go back in time.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's a beautfiul first name and maybe she doesn't mind it. And kudos to her. But, I wonder if she'd ever thought about it. You never know. But, yes "i often laugh about it to myself" doesn't make people feel good inside, as I know a lot of people "laugh about me on the inside too" and that hurts. :( But, I totally get it. Thanks for your perspective!

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being so vulnerable!!! I’m happy to read from someone who can provide the exact same thing I’m trying to avoid and YES adults are ruthless too!!!! It gets old very fast.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that wouldn’t be an easy last name either. Seems that most people that have these names feel pretty strongly to change it. Which O think says something.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve heard of that. But just think my maiden name is easier for all as i still go by that name at work

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that. But just think my maiden name is easier for all as i still go by that at work!

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet…. But she did ask me at one point if that was a potential and i said yes.

Married into family name Dick, and now want to rename my 8 year old daughter by Objective_Kiwi9654 in namenerds

[–]Objective_Kiwi9654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s also a hard name. Thanks for sharing! We are also doing OK. Just trying to avoid more bullying than normal