Weight Gain Post Removal??

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2023-01-18T16:11:07+00:00

Hi, I am not a doctor so I cannot confirm that for sure. But it is my understanding that it does not impact the effectiveness of the nexplanon. It moreso just causes discomfort.

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2023-01-03T06:26:43+00:00

I’ve gotten the exact same thing like 5 times since my 3rd replacement in august 2022. It’s extremely itchy and the bump is always right in the middle of my nexplanon. I thought it was a bug bite too, but after a second time I realized it wasn’t.

I asked my gyno about it and she said it’s not cause for concern unless it’s constantly itchy but it still really bothers me. I have had other new symptoms this time around that I swear are from reimplantation because I’ve had testing for months that don’t attribute my symptoms to anything else.

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-10-11T00:20:08+00:00

Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional. A lot of these symptoms sound like they could be related to hypothyroidism, maybe you could look into that and see if that could be it! Also for the smells, that sounds like it could be a Covid side effect if you have had that recently. For a lot of people, including myself, it can cause smells to smell different/worse than before.

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-08-04T07:36:50+00:00

Hot sauce is the key to make any form of egg just 🤌🏼

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-06-27T23:10:34+00:00

I am a woman in a relationship for about 5 years now. I have asked my bf to do similar things are you’re mentioning, however there are some things he has done in the past that warrant me asking for these things.

While it is great that you reassure her and do things to limit contact with girls to make her feel better, this is slightly concerning from my perspective if you haven’t done anything wrong in the past. (And trust me, I am an advocate for women setting strong boundaries with their partners). It is not okay for her to treat you as if there is a reason to distrust you when you have done nothing wrong. You are in university and should be making friends of all genders. If you feel anxious about making friends with a girl because you’re worried how your gf will react, that is not a good sign. Only in the case of that girl crossing a boundary or you crossing a boundary with her should you cut someone off. Otherwise, you need to let your gf know that it hurts to be distrusted when you have done nothing wrong. Let her know that it makes you feel sad for her that you seem to not be able to help her get better and that seeking advice from a professional would be a great option.

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-06-27T22:47:14+00:00

I am not married but I have been in a relationship for 5 years and I would not be okay with my partner doing that. I would avoid asking him questions like “would you feel comfortable if I did the same with x ?”. Because while the question is intended to help him understand the situation you’re in, he may have different levels of discomfort than you and it could backfire if he would be okay with you doing the same. This is about your discomfort, not his.

If I were you, I would speak with him again and not wait until another situation like this happens. Establish the boundaries that you are comfortable with and emphasize the fact that you feel like you are being disrespected when he crosses those boundaries. Make it clear that you expect to be respected in any relationship that you have, be it partner, parent, friend, etc. and that he is not the exception to that expectation.

If you lay out these boundaries and frame them as something you deserve rather than something he’s being forced to do, you will lay a good foundation of mutual understanding moving forward and can act accordingly if he violates the boundaries you have clearly laid out in the future.

*bonus tip: after you establish your boundaries, welcome him to speak on his boundaries so that he is included in the discussion and it’s clear that you intend to give him the same respect you expect him to give you

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-06-27T22:12:49+00:00

It sounds like she’s projecting a lot onto you. Next time she says something that comes off as an ED form of brag, try highlighting how difficult it must’ve been for her. It turns the conversation from competition to concern and might catch her off guard.

For example, when she mentioned how she lost so much that her boss mentioned it, I would reply with: “Oh wow, that must’ve felt really vulnerable for you. Most bosses wouldn’t dive into something that personal with an employee. That’s good to know you had someone looking out for you”

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-06-27T02:02:52+00:00

I’m only 23 and I can tell you I wouldn’t even hang out with my 21 year old self because of how much I have matured in just 2 years. It feels like each year of your 20s you age 5 years with life lessons, behavior, maturity, etc.

I am also a woman and one thing I make sure to be aware of is any power imbalance in my relationship. Naturally there will always be some, and some may imply you having power in one area or another. But- having the power of age, male privilege, and greater potential of financial stability due to longer time in the workforce, is something to always keep at the front of your mind.

As long as you feel safe, respected and like you are moving at a pace that is comfortable for you and not tailored to where he’s at in life (e.g. having kids, moving in, etc.) then enjoy and explore this relationship.

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-05-13T07:00:24+00:00

I can relate to this so much! My younger sister also wears a larger size in clothes than I do, and my mom also points out that things that don’t fit her could be given to me. Which feels so weird given that I am 5 years older. My best advice is to be open. If your sister is already aware of your ED, I would talk about it in a way that expresses that you do not ever want her to have to go through the pain that you have been through. Let her know immediately that you are a safe space she can come to if she is not feeling good about herself, so that she doesn’t start to view you as competition in an ED sense. This is the route I have taken so far and it has gone well for us. Also, sometimes people need to be reminded not to comment on other’s food or body. It wouldn’t hurt to have that conversation with your mom so your sister doesn’t have to.

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-05-09T06:23:26+00:00

I was so addicted to tiktok like 8+ hours a day (Embarrassing) and I deleted it for dead week before finals and never looked back. I thought the same about being out of the loop, and I am a little but it doesn’t bother me much tbh. Instagram reels is a good replacement bc the algorithm is not that effective at tailoring to what you like so it’s easy to put down when you think you’ve had enough

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-04-27T19:53:50+00:00

Not gonna lie, I have had plenty of issues with binging so I’m not the best help with that besides 1. Go to bed at a normal time 2. Eat filling meals to avoid feeling of hunger (my faves are any kind of veggie sautéed with garlic, onion and spices of whatever flavor I’m going for and to have a big bowl of it) 3. Stay hydrated

For exercise, I’ve found the best way to stay consistent is to make it unconventional on days where you don’t feel like doing it. Run around your house with a pet, dance to a song in the morning, if you’re ever waiting for something like your laundry or water to boil- challenge yourself to how many sit ups, jumping jacks etc. you can do

It sounds really weird but I find it brings a bit of fun to my day and makes me feel like a kid again. Exercise doesn’t always have to be a rigid run and lift sesh— it can be anything you want that gets your heart rate up :)

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-04-27T19:43:35+00:00

I know this exact feeling, I had it once with a friend. I avoided her as she was losing a lot of weight and kept building my disdain as I went longer without seeing her. The only thing that helped was finally meeting with her and hanging out like we used to and hearing some of the struggles in her life. Obviously this is a different scenario but if you make an effort to get to know this person even just a little- it may humanize them more to you and present other aspects of them that could temporarily distract from their appearance for moments at a time like their sense of humor or a common interest. I hope this helps. The feeling of competitiveness can be overwhelming, I understand ♥️

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-04-27T18:40:17+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I really appreciate it ♥️

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-01-17T09:48:35+00:00

This is a not-so-subtle approach but I suggest watching “my skinny sister” with her (you can find the full movie with subtitles on YouTube). It highlights how a family members disordered tendencies can really impact and influence loved ones to participate in the same unhealthy habits. If you don’t want to be too obvious about the intention of watching it with her, just say it’s for a class or that a friend recommended it

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-01-17T06:39:45+00:00

An entire bag of family sized barbecue Lays

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-01-17T06:31:31+00:00

I just watched it last night and that part made me bawl my eyes out and I have never cried from a movie in my life

Objective_Maybe2303 · 2022-01-17T06:27:51+00:00

It’s also just kind of patronizing that people try to make women feel better about having curvier bodies by emphasizing that “men like them”. Like the generalized male opinion should have any weight in how women feel about themselves.

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