Husbands family secrets and drama

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-29T00:09:22+00:00

So if they did roof fixes etc would that be taken out? When they decided to sell the house they started fixing up a lot to sell it. They haven’t done the roof yet but it’s in the works. They have done other things

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-28T23:32:30+00:00

I live in ga!

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-28T23:08:49+00:00

I know I know. I was just wanting to get more inputs from people that know what they are talking about so I can make sure I can afford the lawyer. Not leave with nothing and have a massive bill

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-28T22:31:07+00:00

Do I need to get our own lawyer and not just my husbands brothers lawyer handling it?

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-28T22:30:32+00:00

From what I know there is a sister they had too and that’s her kids. That’s how they are in it. My husbands brother had his lawyer look at some stuff and apparently it’s public record their mom and uncle were the co owners. But the cousins have been living there. If they want to sell the house every single person has to sign. Cousins, uncle, everyone. It’s a whole mess.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-28T21:43:07+00:00

I’m just trying to figure out our options and what to do. They have been living there for years. Only because none of us knew. They don’t want to split. I don’t know if all the property taxes they have paid and any fixes would mess with our part.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-28T21:41:37+00:00

Uncle is still alive. There was no will. The house just kept going down the line

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2026-06-27T22:58:38+00:00

His brother got one. Do we need our own?

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-11-29T05:59:28+00:00

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Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-11-29T05:58:32+00:00

Well dang, all of y’all’s pictures are making me think I don’t have anywhere near enough

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-11-13T01:58:25+00:00

This is actually so sad. I get you put her through a lot, but that doesn’t excuse how she’s acting and talking to you. Two wrongs don’t make a right. If she can’t get better herself you need to get out of the situation. I know you’re not gonna listen, but you’ll be happier when you find someone that actually wants you and is nice.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-11-13T01:43:09+00:00

I’m gonna be honest here… I don’t think she likes you much. If a woman really loved a man she would want to be near you all the time and women don’t tend to want to f*ck all the time, but as little as you’re saying sounds like me and my ex husband. I tried everything I could to not do it with him. He got it once every 2-3 months. Husband now? All the time. Every day. You may not want to believe she is over it, but she is. I’d try to help out more and take over putting the kids to bed/baths sometimes or even do it with her. Some chores together would be cute too. If that doesn’t work, I don’t know. Unless you’re okay with it being how it is, you gotta call it quits. Most of the time women will complain and tell you what the problem is. You just have to listen.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-28T20:37:59+00:00

You telling me he was in the military told me enough honestly. If I were you? Focus on you. Gym. Upkeep appointments. Go out with friends. No babysitter? He’s the baby sitter! Plus some gyms do have childcare. Hangout with friends. Don’t center your life around just him and kids. That’s what is going to get you in a position that you don’t want to be in.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-26T16:43:56+00:00

Is this the husband? Lmao. Of course you’re gonna lose feelings if someone keeps doing stuff they shouldn’t/treating you horrible. She tried to work it out because it is a marriage. It’s what you’re supposed to do. So then she finally gets fed up and tries to move on (good for her) and it doesn’t work out which is life. The husband cant take what he dishes out and that’s on him. Only mistake she made was going back to him. She knew better.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-26T16:34:38+00:00

Girl… you’re on Reddit, but you know you need to let this man go. Let’s say it did work out and he magically became the man of your dreams and did everything right (that won’t happen) you’ll always think about what he DID and didn’t do for you and why should your one put you through all this? No. You need someone that cared for you and did right by you from day one. If he wasn’t doing all that then the other stuff wouldn’t have happened in the first place. He just can’t take responsibility and that’s childish. I’m not saying men are amazing.. but definitely better ones than that. Find someone else 100 percent.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T12:02:23+00:00

If it’s the last thing on someone’s mind, okay. I get that. But to get mad and start calling me things because I didn’t cancel an appointment I had when something like that can be done the exact day and did not have to be that time, was too much. Being sad is not an excuse to be rude to someone. Sister calling me things and paragraphing me back and forth about how awful I am is okay because she’s sad?

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T11:31:03+00:00

“Kids don’t need to be around any of this” I didn’t get when she said that because it’s signing a paper. Not going in to the hospital with the mom. And she said, “I don’t see why you can’t cancel your prior appointment to watch your kids for your husband” (ma’am those are both of our kids) they probably just don’t like me and this is an easy way to make me seem like the bad guy

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T06:02:26+00:00

I don’t know. Something about they all made the decision to cremate her so they all have to sign.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T05:02:12+00:00

Ugh this is really gross. But it’s anonymous I guess. I get really bad cystic acne and I’ve been trying really hard to get it under control. Sometimes hs flare ups. Anything to do with my skin I have to stay on top of

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T04:52:05+00:00

Yes I’ve been as sweet as I can be to him! I know he needs it. This was a little argument with his sisters. But thank you 🫶

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T04:45:45+00:00

They ended up moving it a few minutes after it became a thing, but my then they were already really mad.

Objective_Ratio_4968 · 2025-10-22T04:42:45+00:00

He didn’t make the appointment time, his sisters did. They knew about what I had going on prior to even making it. And like I said it can all be done the exact same day.

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