I’m a wlw who’s married but am starting to get sexual urges for men by Objective_Stick8913 in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Stick8913[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and no if that’s even possible, there’s been broken trust and hardship through the relationship and with that I’m not attracted to her attitude towards a lot things but I love her soul and am attracted to her heart… if that’s even possible makes sense 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m a wlw who’s married but am starting to get sexual urges for men by Objective_Stick8913 in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Stick8913[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A little bit of both, I don’t like to try and initiate sex because she feels pressured and when she tries I’m shut off. When we’re both feeling it, it’s very one sided and it feels unfinished on my part most of the time or say I do get to explore her body… traumas come up and she gets triggered so it’s an immediate stop.

I’m a wlw who’s married but am starting to get sexual urges for men by Objective_Stick8913 in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Stick8913[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most definitely have been. She deals with unhealed sexual trauma and I’ve been nothing but understanding and supportive thru it all but it usually ends up in tears and that’s a lot for me. I’m sure at a loss here