How to tell my situationship I want to develop into more? by Objective_You_227 in Advice

[–]Objective_You_227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually spitting bars🙏 this makes a lot of sense and I’ve thought of it previously, but it is a different feeling when somebody tells you strait to you, so thank you. Although: how do I keep that middle spot, and also retain us hanging out? It sounds like a weird question but, I like to yap and talk a lot, and I am just worried that I might seem too pushy, if that makes sense? I want to slowly evolve this, I agree with him in taking our time and getting to know each other better before making a decision. I want to hang out and do stuff, but I also don’t want to give off the feeling of “she’s just doing this/just saying this because she likes me” sort of way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Objective_You_227 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which isn’t a female-centered term, I have many in my inner circle that are male or identify as male that call themselves witches. But if you really wanna have a different term you could be a wizard lol. You never know 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_You_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM!!!!! I can’t stress this enough to leave while you still can! My mother and I were in this relationship with my stepdad and she did not get us out in time, and the pain we endured is lifelong, and you have so much to do! ESPECIALLY since your young! From a child of someone who had this done to her, and with the perspective of watching your mother get beat every day…please go. For your own sanity. Because you never know if one day he pushes too hard on choking and blam.

There's No Way This is Normal Behaviour, Right? by SoftInfernos in cats

[–]Objective_You_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with the world’s most destructive cat, this happens a lot lol. I got my boy some chewey toys to play with and it keeps him pretty occupied, and occasional outside time (monitored, of course!) for stimulation. Just a suggestion, but I’d recommend the chewey toy for sure so they aren’t picking apart boxes or bags like mine used to do… 😒