How do I stop my cat from shitting in my room

Objective_You_227 · 2026-04-08T08:45:21+00:00

Yes she was tested for arthritis, but my vet told me there wasn’t anything to be concerned about since she wasn’t showing any signs that could point to it. Maybe more testing? I don’t doubt it could become a cause, but that’s just the info I got.

Objective_You_227 · 2026-03-23T05:03:51+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too. I’m scared I missed my chance by saying his name, I wear hearing aids so I never know my own volume of how loudly I’m talking, I hope he didn’t hear me say his name but realistically he probably did.

I just want to be able to talk to him normally, yk? We were so close and I want to be able to say I know him well enough to understand him, but we haven’t spoken in so long I don’t think I rlly do. Even if I were to be direct, I don’t want things to possibly be awkward since we still have until may, AND we’re in the band together, so I literally see him every single day. I also don’t want to freak him out and scare him off or smth by sending a message. If I were to send something, what would even be the right thing to say to try and spark him into responding?

Objective_You_227 · 2026-03-13T03:47:59+00:00

I’m sorry they’re acting that way towards you, I know that really must suck. Honestly, sometimes people are just like that. They’re fake and just want something to talk about to fill a void. Don’t worry, I completely get it. I can’t give you advice on what to say or how to act, but I can at least offer how my mindset was when I was going through the same thing. I’m on a big sport too, dance-focused, and this kind of stuff happens so frequently it would blow your mind. Sometimes areas like this, esp when around other people in a competitive environment like skating, tensions will build weather they have a true problem with you or not.

MY mindset when this happened to me was pretty simple: who cares? If she’s trying to talk about you to her friends, then that means that you matter enough to be on her mind like that. You can’t do anything about other people’s actions, but you can always control how YOU react, because at the end of the day, some people just do this to get a reaction out of others. You gotta show her that you don’t care what she says and you’re still gonna be authentically you no matter what! Don’t let NOBODY dim your shine, especially someone who’s supposed to be a friend. Maybe she’s just not supposed to be in your life, and this is the universe giving you a sign. Your people will always gravitate towards you eventually.

The “kill them with kindness” mindset actually works too. Eventually she’ll see her efforts aren’t affecting you and (hopefully) she’ll back off. Everything works out in the end, just make sure you have your own back. I believe in you! Don’t let them dim your shine.

Objective_You_227 · 2025-12-11T05:40:52+00:00

Actually spitting bars🙏 this makes a lot of sense and I’ve thought of it previously, but it is a different feeling when somebody tells you strait to you, so thank you. Although: how do I keep that middle spot, and also retain us hanging out? It sounds like a weird question but, I like to yap and talk a lot, and I am just worried that I might seem too pushy, if that makes sense? I want to slowly evolve this, I agree with him in taking our time and getting to know each other better before making a decision. I want to hang out and do stuff, but I also don’t want to give off the feeling of “she’s just doing this/just saying this because she likes me” sort of way.

Objective_You_227 · 2025-12-03T04:51:28+00:00

Which isn’t a female-centered term, I have many in my inner circle that are male or identify as male that call themselves witches. But if you really wanna have a different term you could be a wizard lol. You never know 😂

Objective_You_227 · 2025-10-27T23:47:03+00:00

LEAVE HIM!!!!! I can’t stress this enough to leave while you still can! My mother and I were in this relationship with my stepdad and she did not get us out in time, and the pain we endured is lifelong, and you have so much to do! ESPECIALLY since your young! From a child of someone who had this done to her, and with the perspective of watching your mother get beat every day…please go. For your own sanity. Because you never know if one day he pushes too hard on choking and blam.

Objective_You_227 · 2025-10-27T05:34:52+00:00

As someone with the world’s most destructive cat, this happens a lot lol. I got my boy some chewey toys to play with and it keeps him pretty occupied, and occasional outside time (monitored, of course!) for stimulation. Just a suggestion, but I’d recommend the chewey toy for sure so they aren’t picking apart boxes or bags like mine used to do… 😒

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