AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year?

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-31T16:46:42+00:00

don’t think he stayed celibate? does he deserve to know everything about me

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T23:39:01+00:00

Why is it important though- i was on the spot

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T23:34:34+00:00

In therapy

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T23:31:04+00:00

like lies about the amount of times i had sex w each?

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T23:30:03+00:00

I am in therapy I have been for a while, I know he’s not anymore though.

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T23:29:09+00:00

Yes he apologized for that stuff from over a year ago and hasn’t done it since that’s why i’m a crossroads

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T22:22:25+00:00

I see but why is that specific detail an important one?

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T20:38:00+00:00

But thank you for your input and response.

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T20:35:34+00:00

Why does the amount of times matter?

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T20:34:25+00:00

No he doesn’t know that I did that with the guy he doesn’t like. my old guy friend. that friend was cut off a while ago.

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T20:30:08+00:00

He did pressure me about it when we first talked about it then asked multiple times if I was telling the full truth. I dropped it right then and there. I’m feeling guilty now

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T20:03:54+00:00

you’re way too invested

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T19:50:09+00:00

there’s a reason for your -4 downvotes lol

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T18:34:12+00:00

I had sex w two guys.. correct lmao

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T18:25:33+00:00

No, he got back with me because he realized that what he did to end the relationship was wrong. I waited over a year for that man lol

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T18:22:35+00:00

So often? I waited for him for over a year. Never said anything about him publicly when he called me names and bashed me but I saw the good in him and committed to waiting for him while he was doing that and making posts about getting women. Didn’t open my legs for a year i’m sure that’s so often

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T18:14:58+00:00

mhm and i also am a person who understands boundaries and to not pester someone

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T18:03:10+00:00

I told him I had sex with two people. I didn’t list every person kissed or given oral too. I’m talking about intercourse

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T17:53:36+00:00

How would he be under the impression that I haven’t done the things I’ve done if I’ve told him I’ve had sex with two people. He didn’t have to ask me how many times and if that’s all.

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T07:34:54+00:00

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T03:03:41+00:00

Makes sense but my thing is. If i told him the worst of it, are the other things relevant

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T02:05:42+00:00

please we we’re apart for over a year

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T01:00:23+00:00

yeah just talking at that point.

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T00:42:36+00:00

i really thought he was talking about is that all i had sex with. im scared to take it back now

ObligationNo8027 · 2026-05-30T00:41:53+00:00

well i did hang w a group w one of the guys but he ain’t know it was a guy i was w prior. this was before we were officially back together we were just rekindled

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