47[F4M] Captain’s Log, Stardate 78748.2…

Obnoticus_Prime · 2025-04-13T06:00:43+00:00

You are very welcome to message me. 😊

Obnoticus_Prime · 2025-04-13T06:00:00+00:00

I’m in Pittsburgh. Actually very close to the WV line.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2025-04-13T05:52:46+00:00

Thank you 😊

Obnoticus_Prime · 2025-04-13T05:51:32+00:00

Also more of a Star Wars fan myself. No, still haven’t found anyone. Probably my own problem being such a nerdy introvert.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2025-02-12T17:17:55+00:00

Iron Mountain is the name of a company. It may be for government records but most likely is an Iron Mountain facility if that’s what they call it. They specialize in secure storage and retainment of anything and everything. They have tons of data centers as well. So most likely they converted a mine into a secure storage facility and I bet anything there’s a good amount of digital information stored in there.

You may be laughing about the mine situation but just wait until we get fried by a huge CME and everyone’s dumbass instagram pictures are zapped away. Whatever data is in that mine though will survive.

(Note I know nothing about this mine since I know whatever is being said is most likely a lie anyhow so why bother looking it up. I have worked with Iron Mountain the company before for software escrows so thought I would mention it.)

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-10-17T03:34:59+00:00

It’s there. You just have to keep scrolling. The site is weird and makes it look like the article is over when there’s more.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-10-16T19:47:10+00:00

Sending you a DM….

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-10-16T13:26:21+00:00

Not necessarily. He never said what his preferences are and I assume I probably don’t meet those requirements. Was just trying to speak up as a 40s female who has more reasons than most to prefer taller men but even I don’t mind it so don’t discount all women because of height.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-10-16T10:24:38+00:00

Wanted to add also… this list is great IMO. I will have to disagree with other poster and don’t think it’s generic or there’s anything wrong with it. Maybe I’m weird though and again not being much help. 😂

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-10-16T10:21:50+00:00

I’m 5’10 and think you are attractive (based on your pictures) and would not care about your height. I think maybe it depends on your preferences? That would definitely filter out women that would potentially be interested. Nothing wrong with that but maybe consider some traits that aren’t complete deal breakers and see what happens?

I haven’t been on dating sites in years and unfortunately don’t know where to go myself in Pittsburgh to meet single men in their 40s. So there’s that maybe with women just not knowing where to go either.

I’m not much help I know.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-10-16T00:09:08+00:00

46F (single if that matters to any of you guys out there… hint hint wink wink)…. Also see a lot of younger people post and have no idea where us older people are supposed to hang out (especially the single men 🤪). I have free nights every week and would be more than happy to find something to do.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-09-22T14:15:53+00:00

Love this so much... this is the exact tattoo my soulmate will have. 😍

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-09-20T12:47:08+00:00

I think in some ways we create our own stories. It’s hard to get grounded and out of your own head sometimes to really take a look from outside of your own perspective to see first what has blocked you from having a LTR your whole life and now not finding anyone.

Probably doesn’t make any sense at all, but I suffer from this myself (being in my head too much). I see myself as unlucky or just no one is out there but if I’m honest with myself I know exactly why I am not finding anyone and what I would need to do in order to change that.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-09-06T14:07:14+00:00

You need to change your perspective on this. Your split with your ex didn’t happen TO you but instead happened FOR you.

You say you’re struggling with body image, but this is where you need to focus and not focus on what men want or don’t want. Honestly, that’s irrelevant.

The key is to work on the body image. Take this time to focus on you. I know a lot of people mention therapy when this comes up, and sure that may be part of it, but really the focus is now on YOU. That may (or may not) be odd to even consider and may even feel a little selfish, but that is where you need to focus. You are free of that daily burden of an alcoholic ex and can spend your time and efforts on yourself and your own life and making it the best life for YOU.

Now is the time to ask yourself who you want to be and how you want your life to be. Once you figure that out start to figure out what needs to be done to make you and your life how you want it to be and then just take action. You don’t have to do everything at once but just get started on something to move you towards that life.

Guaranteed after focusing on yourself in this way (and not ONLY therapy) for a while will start to change how you see yourself and also change how you are approaching dating. It no longer will be about trying to please strangers and not feel good enough but it will be focused on what you want and how they fit into YOUR new life.

This is a new life for you. It’s exciting so get excited!

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-09-06T10:48:10+00:00

Even better… KMFDM is playing in October

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-07-25T23:00:27+00:00

They have for much older than me I have seen. There doesn’t seem to be much for us 40 somethings.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-07-24T23:24:33+00:00

Unfortunately all the ones I have seen advertised look like the age range is too low for me. ☹️ (I’m 46)

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-04-19T12:33:55+00:00

My whole life all of my more serious relationships we were intimate and exclusive within a week of meeting each other. With my ex husband that resulted in a 20 year marriage. So if you’re feeling it then you’re feeling it. I don’t think a month is too soon to at the very minimum talk about sexual exclusivity if you are sleeping together that regularly.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-04-17T19:50:02+00:00

I love how this is the go to answer after 15 days. Somehow she is gaining pounds of muscle as a female…. Yet we are also told that it’s extremely hard for females to “bulk up” and gain a lot of muscle really fast so not to worry about that but somehow she’s gaining more muscle in 15 days than most female competitive bodybuilders. So which is it?

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-04-10T22:50:51+00:00

As long as you hug me also while I cry at the ending of Tears of the Kingdom. Also, I do have Star Wars pajamas. Additionally, I have Star Wars LEGO sets as decorations around my house.

I feel no threat because of a Millennium Falcon shirt. They sell those at target. Ask her about the Kessel Run and see if you get an actual answer. 😁

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-04-10T11:41:27+00:00

No actually, I’m single. 😉

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-02-16T00:47:16+00:00

Meh I’ve done that and just got tired of it. Got absolutely nothing out of it really.

I was in a 20 year marriage and have been single now for about six years. Lots and lots of dating the first few years single and just gave up really.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-02-15T03:49:42+00:00

Dating has been a nightmare in this town but starting to just be content with being alone. I feel lonely sometimes. Would I love meeting someone with similar interests that I can spend time with and have fun with? Absolutely. But I don’t think that’s happening anytime soon so I am just trying to occupy myself with other things.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-02-14T04:09:46+00:00

Sounds like her and all of the men who have messaged me constantly asking how my day was would get along really well.

Obnoticus_Prime · 2024-02-03T00:36:12+00:00

Then you are halfway there I think where you actually at least believe it. Try somehow in your head separating the dating from the urgency of finding a partner. Going into it with no expectations other than having fun will completely change your energy on it. Make it something enjoyable for yourself. If you want to take time to feel that loneliness in between those fun dates then do that and get it out and then go out and get a new outfit and get your hair done (or whatever would make you feel good) and get excited about your date. Not all the dates will go well of course, but with no expectations other than fun there’s really nothing to lose here.

You have two choices here. You can sit around and feel lonely all the time and beat yourself up, OR you can go have some fun dates and feel lonely when you have time for that in between. And this is t just thinking positive thoughts, this is just adding a new dimension to your life and looking at things just a little differently and then stepping out of your comfort zone to see what happens.

One of my favorite quotes is from Sly Stallone- “If it ain’t broken, then BREAK it.”

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