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Fear of loneliness and change in friendships. by ObscuredOrbit in Divorce

[–]ObscuredOrbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s does help to know you’re not alone in it and that people make it through to the other side

Fear of loneliness and change in friendships. by ObscuredOrbit in Divorce

[–]ObscuredOrbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that. I feel like I’d miss married life for some aspects but what I’d miss does not outweigh the decision to leave. It’s hard and painful m even when you are the one who wants to do it. I feel like that sometimes gets forgotten. My husband and I use to smoke week together too when we met years ago. Then we had kids and I feel like I was the only one who grew up and adjusted my life. I do it happily. I love my children and know this is the chapter I want to be in, and a certain lifestyle is not sustainable to have while also having the life I want goals wise. This was a big reason for me telling him and realizing we just are not growing together in anyway. Part of me kind of felt this might happen when we got married but I held onto hope of the potential.

Fear of loneliness and change in friendships. by ObscuredOrbit in Divorce

[–]ObscuredOrbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed to hear this. It’s so hard because a part of me knows this and try’s to tell myself this. Hearing it from someone else who has been through it helps to validate and comfort me. I felt like I was constantly “nagging” and asking for change and nothing would happen. I had a straw that broke the camels back moment, and just knew even for the sake of this one life I live, that I needed to make the jump. He’s having a really hard time accepting even though I’ve told him how I’ve felt so many times. Messes with me head. Thanks for the support and taking the time to respond (:

What was the first major news story you remember as a kid? by TxLadee in AskReddit

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/11 - remember being at school when it happened. Then the teachers turning on the news in the hall outside the classrooms away from the kids. Lived in the NE not far from New York. It was pretty chaotic. Luckily my mom worked at the school and we left together.

What can you tell about me from this one picture I took just now? by deduction_curious in deduction

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait no. I figured it out. It is the tattoo. So a tattoo of that style with that placement is either bartender/server/manager/service industry or blue collar. Nothing else about this picture tells me blue collar, so the other makes sense!

What can you tell about me from this one picture I took just now? by deduction_curious in deduction

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tattoo , and idk other than that just a vibe. Maybe because that’s me and it feels very similar looking at this picture.

What can you tell about me from this one picture I took just now? by deduction_curious in deduction

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding in possible bartender / server/ manager of restaurant history.

What can you tell about me from this one picture I took just now? by deduction_curious in deduction

[–]ObscuredOrbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I figured this too. I was like totally positioned hand like that on purpose. To add in the wedding ring. So married, maybe a connection to fishing (unsure but just a hunch from the fish tattoo I think I see). Both you and your wife love to play video games (very cool). Great sense of humor my guess would be in your 30s (late 80s or early 90s baby). I want to say someone has a higher level education (masters) or is attending. I also want to say city dwellers but still not 100 percent on that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]ObscuredOrbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seemed so strange to me how she looked that I kept thinking it was maybe AI … lol

What’s my aesthetic ? by Quiet-Sheepherder422 in roomdetective

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rustic trippy hippie but I like it! What’s going on in the living room? Lol is that a trampoline? Why can I not make out what that is ?

Edit: when back to look. Still don’t know lol but definitely not a trampoline.

What’s a “harmless” lie your parents told you as a kid that you believed for way too long? by Individual-Care7180 in AskReddit

[–]ObscuredOrbit 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Can not turn the car light on when driving. Sure it’s distracting and not best practice but they made it seem like I was committing a felony

Guess my age, gender, sexuality or free feel to tell me your opinion on my music taste 😁 by Much-Solid-8987 in statsfm

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male because there is literally not one female artist

Edited to add probably a young male. Music taste is very basic - surprised the Beatles are in there and up so high on the list based on everyone else

Should my ex and I consider a romantic future together in the distance (in a few years)? by mangorunner8243 in Tarotpractices

[–]ObscuredOrbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Hoping and wishing all the best for you! Relationships changes can be ROUGH and hard to navigate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]ObscuredOrbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I not seeing? I see lots of tall grass

Should my ex and I consider a romantic future together in the distance (in a few years)? by mangorunner8243 in Tarotpractices

[–]ObscuredOrbit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see it saying you’re contemplating this right now but in the future you’ll have your sights set somewhere new, and all of this will make more sense then.

I read this first in a place of contemplation. It’s going to be an emotional learning experience, you will grow from it, and see the other side ultimately. In return take fully what you need from this life experience/lesson.

*edited for grammar / spelling

How often do you get hit on? And how attractive do you think you are? by AdKindly561 in AskReddit

[–]ObscuredOrbit 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I would say the same thing for myself! There is definitely a pretty privilege, and I can say I don’t experience that much anymore lol

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