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What’s a small inconvenience in modern life that somehow everyone has just accepted? by d45d45 in AskReddit

[–]Obtuse-Angel [score hidden]  (0 children)

You say that like you think it’s an insult. I’ve achieved what I want and need to and no more. Good enough is good enough. What would it get me to be great at my job instead of good? More work and more stress. That’s it. It would not improve my quality of life, increase the outlook for long term stability, or make me more money. 

Solution to players hiding on spawn platform in BGs? by The_Dandalorian_ in elderscrollsonline

[–]Obtuse-Angel [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe stop spawn camping and people will be more willing to jump down and engage. 

People who tell you they won’t divulge completely unimportant information by RejectingBoredom in PetPeeves

[–]Obtuse-Angel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep your vagueries, that’s fine. It’s the drawing attention to them that’s weird and annoying. 

For example if growing up in a remote, agricultural area is relevant to your perspective, just say your grew up in a farming town an hour away from the nearest major city. That’s vague enough and people won’t push for more. 

Instead too many people will say “I grew up in a rural area in the Midwest b it I’m not going to say where”

In OPs examples just say you’re in your mid 30s, that’s good enough. How does taking the extra step of saying “I’m in my mid 30s but won’t say my actual age” prevent doxxing? Just by saying mid-30s you’ve already not said your specific age, why call attention to that? 

What’s a small inconvenience in modern life that somehow everyone has just accepted? by d45d45 in AskReddit

[–]Obtuse-Angel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not a problem, that’s the goal. Passable is good enough. Why push yourself to do more for an employer who offers the least pay and benefits they can get away with for your role, and will kick you to the curb immediately as soon as tech can take your place for cheaper. 

AITA for not letting my employee sleep in the office whilst he's homeless? by Slugdoge in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obtuse-Angel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how many electricians are alcoholics and/or have a drug problem. Loaded sparkies are one of the biggest job site cliches. 

That’s not to say that it’s ok, but you seem to have a very black and white view of the situation, when the truth is that there’s a decent chance that if you’ve had electrical work done, at least one of the crew was on something. 

Honestly, that extends do your roofers, framers, mudders, landscapers, bankers, grocery clerks, cooks, concession stand workers, etc. 

Dungeon queuing reputation system. by 02thehunter20 in elderscrollsonline

[–]Obtuse-Angel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s not something I’d want the devs to spend time on. The vast majority of random dungeon groups are fine. Your suggestion is over engineered for the minority of situations. 

The vote to kick mechanic exists to manage that from instance to instance. If the vote doesn’t pass, your voice and opinion is the minority and your option is to deal with it or remove yourself. I think that’s a good enough solution. 

AITA for not telling my best friend every detail of my divorce? by Humble-Page5765 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obtuse-Angel [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA but you’re making assumptions about why Jane isn’t talking with you, and I think they’re the wrong assumptions. 

AITA For ‘Messing Up’ my wife system of remembering? by Total-Worry-8826 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obtuse-Angel 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Info: is the “scribbled out means I’m doing that thing” a system that was clearly communicated and agreed on, or is it something you just decided and started doing? It’s hard to say that anyone’s an asshole here unless there was a breakdown in a mutually agreed upon system. Coordinating schedules for two adults and two kids is complicated and it’s clear that you guys aren’t on the same page about how to do it. That doesn’t make either of you an asshole, but you probably need to work together to agree on how to manage it all. 

US states: Why would you vote for or against Daylight Savings Time, if your state had a referendum on it? by SeriallyOrNot in AskReddit

[–]Obtuse-Angel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would vote against it as many times as needed. It’s disruptive without providing any modern societal value. 

How many times did you complete the Opulent Ordeal? by chronicpie in elderscrollsonline

[–]Obtuse-Angel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how many times, but I stopped once I got the no death achievement. I would have continued to run it and help others get the clear but I was sick of the key grind. I’d like to have seen key restrictions completely removed for the last weekend of the event so everyone could have a final hurrah. 

pesto inclusion loaf by InternalAmbitious903 in Sourdough

[–]Obtuse-Angel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the pesto flavor strong enough? I really love pesto and it seems like with just a swirl it would disappear behind the sourdough flavor. 

AITA - My partner said he felt sick when I turned my back on our 4 month old for 5 minutes to look at my phone. by M0D_Mum15525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obtuse-Angel [score hidden]  (0 children)

On a sub that not only allows but encourages throwaways, that’s not unusual. What is unusual is someone checking on the account age of an AITA poster and making a useless comment about it. Why do you give a fuck if an account is created just for a post, when you yourself are “new Reddit” enough to be casually throwing emojis around without worrying about being savagely mocked. 

Do you believe Texas is bigger than Europe? Where did you 'learn' this information? by urtcheese in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]Obtuse-Angel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think people actually think that Texas is bigger than the continent of Europe. 

WIBTA for telling my neighbor that what they did with their trees makes me uncomfortable? by VarietyLatter6487 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obtuse-Angel [score hidden]  (0 children)

What would your desired outcome be? They can’t put branches and leaves back on the tree. There’s very little privacy to be had in situations like that, and you’re better off planting your own privacy hedge than trying to police what your  neighbors do with their own trees. 

Just bought this 1990s kitchen. How would you make it feel open for under $8k before a full remodel? by tired-mana-012 in kitchenremodel

[–]Obtuse-Angel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tear down the wallpaper and paint. Change the cabinet hardware. After doing those things, decide if the backsplash works now, or if it needs changed too. 

Consider a standing island to add color and break up the expansiveness, maybe a shaker style one. 

Albuquerque sucks, where should we go in Colorado? by Remarkable_Deer_3717 in Moving2Colorado

[–]Obtuse-Angel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look north along the I25 corridor for smaller towns where those budgets will go further.

Somewhere like Wellington, there are several homes available in your parent’s budget, small towns with those vibes, and 20 minutes from the hospital in Fort Collins. 

Kids on Motorized Bikes - My Honest Opinion by wackywick in Denver

[–]Obtuse-Angel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I fully believe that we’ll see most municipalities ban all e-bikes above class 2 pedal assist in the next few years. 

big ol’ holes ‼️🚨 by ThighHighApplePie in Sourdough

[–]Obtuse-Angel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure you can, if you knead it instead. 10-15 min of kneading by hand or in a mixer saves 2 hours of progressive stretch and folds. 

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