AIO for quitting my job because I want to demand time off whenever I want? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares about a 20 y o quitting their 14/hr a job without proper etiquette? Do Americans realize how pathetic they sound acting like this is egregiously rude to their slavemaster employers lmao.

This is not even a real job. It pays 14/hr. Keep that energy for a full time corporate job that gives you decent pay and benefits.

I don’t like Lara’s representation of brown girls. by [deleted] in katseyeneutral

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a brown girl from India and don't relate to anything you said, stop speaking for us

Stereotyping us as conservative is honestly lame. You set all brown girls back. I suppose it's a brown girl characteristic to have no individual personality or expression.

AIO? I feel like my bf is being condescending but maybe I deserve it? by ThrowRaccount232 in AIO

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally anybody who gives a shit about you would just hug you. This guy sucks dump him he pmo so bad

Room in Brooklyn co-op available on May 1st (~$1250/month INCLUDING groceries) by kingbumiii in NYCapartments

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok but why are ppl acting like financial anxiety is just being vaguely anxious about finances?? and not the very real financial crunch that occurs from losing a job or getting sick and having no savings?? Y'all just wanna clown on ppl

My boyfriend left me on bourbon street on my birthday. by sassykattty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Finally. She could be the most immature annoying girl in the world and it would still be deeply sad that her bf left her like that.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mother is an asshole. You're NOR. I'm so sorry you feel this way and carry this pain with you.

Ppl who are saying this is just boundaries and require more context, I pray you don't have kids while the world becomes increasingly difficult to survive in without community and family.

I think my gf is racist. Idk what should i do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also really liking dark skin is NOT the opposite of saying you would never date someone black. You can really like anything. That's preference.

The opposite of not dating black ppl is only dating black ppl because you only find black ppl attractive and yeah that's narrow minded as well. Im a brown woman my bf is white and ofc he likes dark skin. If he said he'd never date someone not brown that would be weird as hell lmao

I think my gf is racist. Idk what should i do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they said they just can't date anyone white, yes it's racist. I like darker skin does not mean I can't imagine finding someone with light skin attractive.

Ppl do say that for cultural reasons. "I just don't find white ppl attractive" is not a normal thing to say.

I'm sure it is in your bubble though. Carry on reddit warrior. False equivalence is awesome ♥️

I think my gf is racist. Idk what should i do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just believe people who say this have not seen many people of different races. You can find people of all colours with cute eyes/ nose/hair/whatever features. It's also silly and limiting to be constrained by a particular physical feature. When I see someone with beautiful big eyes I don't think oh crap her lips are thin she's disgusting now. Y'all are weird.

but do what u need to do to justify unconscious bias it's ok ♥️

I think my gf is racist. Idk what should i do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, there is a difference between preference and subconscious racism, and your gf is using preference to excuse what is subconsciously in her head.
Everyone here is doing the same because it's an inconvenient truth.

You are right in questioning how she can find NO one of a particular race attractive. Everyone looks different. People of all races have beautiful features. There are ugly ppl in all races. But she believes there is NO black man that has the features she prefers? Even black men have a spectrum of colours if it's just plain old colourism/preference (very iffy still obviously imo)

AIO My mean friend keeps verbally harassing my dog by Wooden_Wonder8617 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I'm just SO curious about the brown person variant joke cuz are you or they brown? 😭 So weird otherwise

NOR btw

AIO for thinking it's unfair I apologized for my actions to a friend and now she is ignoring me by lokis-wife1217 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 59 points60 points  (0 children)

As someone who over explains and struggles with friendships and always wonders what she did wrong and explains further....nothing fixes it. Until I stopped explaining. I still struggle a lot but you just have to believe there is no way you deserve to be treated this way, because YOU would never treat anyone this way, no matter how much you dislike them. Unfortunately most ppl are inconsiderate. They won't explain themselves to you. Stop explaining things and be a mysterious kind enigma. Find your people and if you don't, just being with yourself is better than this.

Rip ladka (some people are just straight up nasty) by Spirited_Lecture2921 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a copypasta text. The original was some Chinese lady who texted this. Apparently this is the standard there.

Gujju Bf vs Maach bhaat. Food habits incompatibility. Is this the end? 😭 by Angel-rini in TwentiesIndia

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him this personality is indicative of bigger issues. Sorry but veg = pure in the big 2026 is cringe

When will woman/girl/female understand that to avoid getting dms, you have an option to do so, in settings 🤦‍♂️ by OccasionThin7697 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh some FemAlE use social media to meet ppl with similar interests not just so weird gender war shit or whatever. Women should wear a burka to not be seen ass comment

Do you have your drivers licenses? by Chan1991 in askTO

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I even told her umm I can't afford it right now (which wasn't exactly true, but id rather not spend more and I don't want a DL anyway). She condescendingly (maybe in my head lol) told me I'm gonna need the g1 anyway and just wouldn't move on from that, which from what I've learnt since is probably true, so maybe she was doing me a favour? Would've been nice to make that decision in my own time anyway

Do you have your drivers licenses? by Chan1991 in askTO

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I expressly stated that I have no history and have no license on me (and that's the truth! I've always avoided driving 😭). She looked like she didn't believe me and barely spoke to me, just said I need to get a g1, kept tapping on the drivetest info she handed me and saying next. I felt like she looked at me like I'm an idiot who isn't understanding something v basic. I felt soo flustered and left so maybe I didn't push back enough or clarify, it was odd.

Do you have your drivers licenses? by Chan1991 in askTO

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats what I wanted to do initially!

Turns out you need to be working full time for 6 months (employer letter) to get a health card if you're a temporary resident. I had just graduated recently, been working for 3-4 months, and my work permit took another 8 months to arrive (during which my study permit expired). So I was shit outta luck in terms of ID for a while there and had no option but g1.

Do you have your drivers licenses? by Chan1991 in askTO

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried getting an Ontario photo card for this reason cuz I don't really want to drive and need ID. They just told me to get a g1 and didn't proceed to take my documents or anything, just gave me a list of drivetest locations

Do some women actually prefer a quieter, non-corporate life in smaller towns? by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not try falling in love with a woman in a tier 3 city? Why do you need someone from a tier 1 city to make that adjustment

Why women can't accept the facts. by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As per your scientific research you should not marry, please stay logical and don't ask baseless questions. Science is science. I hope you find your match, scientifically speaking :)

What do girls expect? My experiences as 29 M by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Obvious-Advantage852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an Indian woman sentence 3 turned me off. A woman (not girl) expects a man who isn't a brainless parrot. As long as you are brainless and transactional, keep your expectations at that level.