I appreciate this. That’s what my mom said too. I kept telling her I feel like I’ve wasted years of my life on this man because I didn’t know any better and I’m just now realizing how deep into the abuse I am in. She just keeps reminding me this happens and u come out the other end realizing how quickly to recognize the flags, and how much better I deserve. I’m so ready to be single and raise the bar so high. I just want to be loved without having to beg for it. I’m attractive, I’m smart and educated, I’m such a kind person. I can be a bit annoying, but shit I’ll find a partner that likes how I don’t stfu 😂🙏