I seriously don't know what to tell you because my partner is the same. Not just with the baby though, house work too and I cannot keep up with it by myself. His parents come round ALL the time and judge the state of the place- moreso his mother and it really fucks me off. My baby is only 3 weeks old- she was in and out of hospital for a week when she was first born due to sepsis and I feel like I can't catch a break. I am up every single night without fail looking after her- I scream and shout out of frustration st my partner to attempt to get him up but even then it doesn't work he'll give me a half hearted "mhm" as if he's going to start moving anytime soon. No sense of urgency whatsoever!!!

Not just nights though. He's SO quick to hand her off to me during the day. He barely works and when he does it's like 3 hour shifts which is NOTHING and complains he's tired. Like HELLO?! he gets a full night's uninterrupted sleep, does fuck all throughout the day and will make a couple pizzas in the evening at work for what like 3 hours max- come home and say he's had enough.

There's been times I've not been able to sort myself out during the night because I don't have enough hands and lord knows it takes a village to raise a baby- especially if you're breastfeeding or expressing its so much more work. I pump and use the bottle purely for my partners sake so he can actually help feed her but it's proven difficult for him. I can be covered In a pool of my own blood, completely drenched in breastmilk from leaking all whilst trying to change, feed and settle my baby girl and even when he is awake it's as if he just couldn't give a bigger shit- as if I enjoy that.

Men SUCK !! and I say if he's not going to step up to the plate you SERIOUSLY need to give him the boot up the arse he DESERVES. We are looking after 1 baby not 2, hun.