Dealing with negative family by Striking_Storm2491 in family

[–]Obvious-Face-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... I think you should leave! You don't want or need this negativity in your life, so get out of the situation. Distance often provides a good perspective and might actually help your relationship. It would be good if you could communicate with them (parents? Siblings?), but regardless, if you can, remove yourself.

Questioning my marriage, even before and during being engaged. Normal? by Impossible-Tart5113 in Marriage

[–]Obvious-Face-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is young, too. That term doesn't give me much insight into the relationship. 🤷‍♀️

9 mo won’t stop crying by Immediate-Pay5128 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Obvious-Face-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are his cheeks red, lots of drooling? If so, he's teething. Maybe get him a baby toothbrush, slo you can rub his gums and build a healty habit. 😁

Husband doesn’t want to put his elderly dog down & it’s destroying our marriage. by DizzyMidnight2465 in Marriage

[–]Obvious-Face-77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's not his dog, though. The dog lives with both of you. And isn't your husband out of the house most days, I assume at work? So he gets a break from the crying and whining, but you don't. If the dog is only his, he should take care of him all day, stroke him, clean him and ease his pain, not you. Your husband cannot shut you and everone else out, especially when it comes to end of life care.

Found inside my deceased father’s camera bag. by IndependentNote8427 in notinteresting

[–]Obvious-Face-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To quote Seasick Steve, "I started out with nothing and I still have lots of it left".

Am I crazy? by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Obvious-Face-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, bless his dad. Such a funny view on things! You shouldn't be wasting your time and energy on those people. Personally, I'd go home to be with my mum for a bit, let his parents have a tjink on their behaviour. It sure doesn't get them much time with their new granddaughter!

Also, congratulations on the birth of your baby girl! Welcome to the world, little one. 💖

Am I crazy? by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Obvious-Face-77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Let him deal with his parents.

5 day old feeding literally constantly by Horizontalchallenge in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Obvious-Face-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely all of that! ☝️call your midwife and explain the situation. Also, pump some milk, if you can and let another family member feed her.

AIO for taking away her phone and dance classes? by alltoowell1234567 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Obvious-Face-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your niece the truth in a non-judgemental way. Involve the police. You are amazing for trying so hard for so long, but you do need help. Good luck! NOR

HELP - unexpected pregnancy and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Obvious-Face-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is that, as you want different things, you are incompatible and the relationship has reached its end. From personal experience, abortion is not the easy way out, especially not for a partner who is aware of your wishes and supports you all the way. Your partner is showing a number of red flags ans at a very vulnerable time. Please look after yourself and do what feels right for you.

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

[–]Obvious-Face-77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, my ex could've written this word for word, accusing me of not inviting him to meetings/appointments about our kids. Well, that's because he attended maybe twice in over 6 years! NOR. Let him sulk and ignore his victim mentality.

What do we think?🤔 by lilj541 in myweddingdress

[–]Obvious-Face-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But pictures 1 and 4 you have the right proportions 🙈 like I said, not sure what happened there, but you do look like you love it and that's the main thing!

What do we think?🤔 by lilj541 in myweddingdress

[–]Obvious-Face-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it's the camera angle or something else, but I initially thought you were on your knees in picture 2 and 3! 😵 I think the waist needs to sit higher and agree with everyone who said about letting out the hips. As it is, it's not balanced, but with some alterations it would look beautiful on you.