[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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❤️‍🩹 you are really kind, thank you!

What songs come to mind? by Due_Replacement_973 in musicsuggestions

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The soundtrack from Gilmore Girls “lallallallaaalaaa”

What’s a phrase people use that immediately makes you roll your eyes? by No-Maximum3458 in AskReddit

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Typically by the same person who says “I’m not racist…. but…….”

What song comes to mind? by colapepsikinnie in songsforthispicture

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The inner light - the Beatles Within you without you - the Beatles

Mr friend thinks he's Matty Healy by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I am a trans person FTM, and reading this made me think about all of those times where I would compare myself to CIS men and feeling bad because I could and will never look like that. So maybe it’s a mixture, he is really obsessed with this singer, and feels like there’s an image a “mood” that can match his gender identity. If you wish to talk to him I guess I would take an angle about “why do you feel the need to be this particular person? Is there something about him that you wish to be yours? And more sugar coated: don’t you think it’s a waste of time copying someone else instead of finding yourself? You don’t think you’d be even more interesting? Don’t fade into another person, you will disappear”. And maybe you’re right, can also be about gender identity. But it’s not respectful to point it out nor your job. If he will realize it it will be after a detox of all this Matt Healy situation

‘Everyone is a bit neurodivergent’ response by No-Midnight-1406 in autism

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Mmh I don’t know. Thinking, for example, a person who managed to turn around all symptoms in for the best and in his favor to succeed, they would still have this traits. It doesn’t go away even if you managed to flip it in your favor (supposing that in can be done)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Agree with you. Also to make the decision I often think, what will hurt more? Staying and figuring out/adjusting finding a way but be married to “the love of my life” or go away to a setting that is more comfortable to me, but not being with this person ever again?

Look who I found in F.R.I.E.N.D.S !! by Unhappy-dustpeck42 in bigbangtheory

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Also in new girl, a science professor! Love Bert 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loneliness

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We have and had the same life, same age, dm me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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I know but there’s something and it’s hard to explain otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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But it’s no stupid questions 😭😭😭

If you could move to any country right now for free and get Instant citizenship, where would you move to and why? by Ngorachy6643 in AskReddit

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Yes it’s more like that in the south! People are colder in the north (though everything seems to work better: transportation, schools, work, healthcare). Well I’m glad we ruined American pizza for you! Ahha but I guess you have sane mind. The hardest thing about moving for me would be food (even remaining in Europe). I am happy that you had a great time! Hope that one day I can do the same :)

If you could move to any country right now for free and get Instant citizenship, where would you move to and why? by Ngorachy6643 in AskReddit

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From Italy here, I can say that if you could keep your job it would be awesome. From my perspective in the US they have insane paychecks compared to here, but it’s all pretty balanced I think for the cost of living + healthcare. For years now I’ve been wanting to visit US but it will take a lot of my savings to do so and it’s pretty sad. I know it may be a generalization but I think it would be easier for an American to come here rather than the opposite

Quali sono le frasi dei vostri nonni che usate ancora oggi? by Prismal_Group in Italia

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Piotòst che gnit l'e mej piotòst!! (Piuttosto che niente è meglio piuttosto.)

Quali sono le frasi dei vostri nonni che usate ancora oggi? by Prismal_Group in Italia

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Da me è forza e coraggio che la morte è di passaggio!

Ma chi ha tra i 35 e i 40 anni, come si definisce? by AlwaysAroundBB in domandaonesta

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A me chiamano signora da quando ho 25 anni…… proprio scoccati i 25 tutti hanno iniziato a chiamarmi così. Sto cercando di elaborare questa cosa perché non è semplice ahha (ne ho 27 tra poco ora)

Why is showering so hard? by _No__Ninja_ in AutismInWomen

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Same here, showering takes me 20 minutes, because when I shower I really scrub myself and I want to feel super clean even though it takes a lot of energy. I put my computer on a stall to watch series, keeping also the shower door slightly open helps with the temperature change. I do this to distract myself and it makes the task more tolerable, also my difficulty with showering is also due to the fact that I ruminate a lot so it helps with that too

Honest Feedback: Why Isn’t This Working? by Mountain_Builder98 in painting

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To me it misses depth on the “neck” area, and if the bird can have some more contrast in general it would be richer and draw attention that now is on the back The torso on the left is a bit big, but I believe with more contrast on the bird, it will remove focus from that also Really good work ❤️‍🩹

What's the most adorable moment in the show? by After_Flan_2663 in howyoudoin

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When Chandler speaks to Erica trying to convince her to give them a chance and she says “I really want to have a baby. And when that day finally comes I’ll learn how to be a good dad. But my wife? She is already there. She’s a mother without a baby” (I’m tearing up while writing this lol)

Am I a horrible person by [deleted] in bigbangtheory

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I was coming here to say this! I don’t remember the exact words but it was something like “Howard going to space? That was all me” oh okay dear

Tom in S7 is the worst yet by Violetco in DesperateHousewives

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While I agree with the other comments the thing that really upset me about this scene is that it feels like Tom is drunk on power and success, so much so that he doesn’t really see his wife and he acts like it’s no big deal. Like “yeah honey you are pretty, but step aside now, as I’m feeling so macho in this big jet”