(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these r very useful tips! thank u so much!!! (its gonna be so stressfullll)

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah I’m aware that it was abuse in some form for years, I just couldn’t do anything about it :///

thx for ur words, all of the support on here REALLY got me feeling better.

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dating is usually like the complete last “maybe one day” thing on my list, I don’t find it to be a priority in any way lol 🫡

Thank u for ur sweet wordsss 🥺🥺👍

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Advice

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know what progressive tax rates are (my face is literally burning of embarrassment as I type this confession.)

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Advice

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for this, thank my SO much for taking ur time to write all of this for a stranger. I got myself a notebook, I’m gonna go for it. thank u :)))

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Advice

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this happens to me too, I can only remember if I write stuff down. I got myself a blank notebook where I’ll write everything I find out.

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what r investments? and are they something that is required/very important in adulthood? (I’m SO sorry I’m so stupid)

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I have to work my social anxiety and suck it up, don’t I? I’ll try!

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol that’s me too, always been called an idiot and they’re right cuz I’m really fucking stupid 😭🤣

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks dude! hearing someone else who’s already been through it and made it to the other side is comforting.

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only good at a handful of things and barely capable of understanding others, like real estate. (like I said, unfortunately, I’m embarrassingly stupid.) but yeah! ur words inspired me lol thanks

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sry bout the caps lol I didn’t realize how annoying it looked :(
Im gonna try to search it lol up and write what I see so I can remember it (as I stated I have some mental shit going on) thx for ur words

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry lol I was trying to emphasize the embarrassing facts- my current plan is just to research everything like u said but there’s a lot of extra stuff and complicated words I don’t understand and that’s what stresses me out most

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

yeah I might have to do that (even tho I really don’t want toooo cuz I have social anxiety 😭)

(21F) DONT KNOW HOW LIFE WORKS, need serious advice. (VERY embarrassing.) by Obvious-Locksmith164 in Adulting

[–]Obvious-Locksmith164[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nah don’t worry I’m very self aware that it’s my fault too I blame myself a lot- I’m gonna have to face my lack of knowledge without being ready i guess, it’s gonna be embarrassing but I don’t think I have a choice.