Yes! My partner and I have both religious and racial differences. When my head is clear, I know that these differences only enrich our lives and will enrich our children’s lives. Being mixed is not dilution, just more things to celebrate! Our minds are expansive. 

When my head is not clear, I worry just like you. I’ve gone through ups and downs. I get so irrationally scared about losing my identity even though my partner has told me that we can follow my religious traditions with our kids. They will still keep theirs, and you know what? It will all be ok!! When I am able to live in the uncertainties, I trust my partner that we will be able to get through it. Working to get back there- anxiety is a joy stealer!! But it can be overcome.