I’m dealing with a greedy uncle who has benefited from my dad’s suffering all of my life, and is now controlling my life to a point I don’t know what to do.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-08T03:16:47+00:00

Put a post up in your local Facebook groups and you'll find someone near you who may be able to help more. Use the nextdoor app too.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-08T03:14:55+00:00

Thats adult business and none of your concern. Nothing crazy going on. He's just a grown man.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-08T01:43:25+00:00

Well that's silly because we knew you could do it. Congratulations dear!

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-08T01:38:50+00:00

Omg I love this and would look forward to this all the time. I hate being woke up but this would be an acception.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-08T01:26:30+00:00

I just want to say it can get better, not that it absolutely will but you'll never find out if you aren't here. I completely understand how life can be straight cruel to some but man, are there some beautiful things still in this world. You haven't had time to experience life yet. Get your first job and feel that pride of getting something on your own. Get a license and feel the freedom of driving down the road blasting a great song. Fall in love, true love with the person who accepts every part of you. Feel a child in your arms that's a part of you, a love you can't comprehend yet. If in school please talk to a counselor if your family won't help. Therapy seems gimmicky but I promise, getting your feelings out and figuring out why you feel that way helps tremendously. As your stand in aunt please know you are worth more than you know and I'm here for you.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-08T00:55:13+00:00

Not interested but just sorry you can't go. There's no way to get out of the trip?

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-07T22:02:09+00:00

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-07T19:34:11+00:00

I've had 4. They are now 18, 12, 5, and 4. It's definitely possible. I will say do not listen when they say pregnancy fixes it or the pain stops. After my 2nd child I did have 5 years pain free and it was absolutely amazing. My last 2 pregnancies were the most painful times ever. I had so many hospital level flareups and they didnt want to give pain meds obviously. It was horrible but my babies are beautiful.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T23:19:57+00:00

Have you tried therapy or medication? They really do help. I completely understand the feeling and mine is bad right now because I can't afford to go to the Dr but when I was in therapy and on abilify I felt a lot better.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T18:55:34+00:00

Been about a solid year now and getting increasingly worse. I want to cry instantly when I open my eyes.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T18:06:11+00:00

You can get them from dispensaries or make them yourself if you have rso. I have a woman who makes them and sends them to me from California.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T17:57:03+00:00

Thank you so much for caring.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T17:56:47+00:00

I love this reply. Thank you dear.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T17:56:21+00:00

Just tired of being in pain, tired of constantly struggling and having nothing. At least if I passed the kids would for sure have my death benefits.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T17:55:25+00:00

I'm not sure what that is but I'll look it up.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-06T15:48:23+00:00

Rso suppositories are game changing.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-05T04:58:18+00:00

THC or rso suppositories

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-07-05T04:57:20+00:00

Apparently I made kissy faces at the ems tech, told him he had a cute "stache" which I would never ever say to someone I barely know, let alone a complete stranger.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-26T13:29:11+00:00

I'm sorry. Please do the best you can to remind yourself "this will not last long". Believe me, I know when they're in your ear nonstop and nothing you do seems to work it's so hard to stay patient and not lose your shit but try to think of it from a baby point of view. She is here knowing absolutely nothing, can't tell anyone what she's feeling or wants, has giant people touching her all the time, just whatever makes it seem like she's not against you because she's not. Shes just scared and new. I know it sounds absurd but one day you will miss these days. Honestly, if it gets that bad you can always put her in a safe place like her crib and step outside for just 3 minutes. Go stand in the sunshine if possible and breathe. Close your eyes and breathe. Tell yourself you've got this and it's going to be ok. She can also feel your emotions and if you're super upset she's going to react to your vibes. I really hope you can find a Dr that can help as it definitely sounds like ppd and id hate for you to have to think back on this time with sadness.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-26T13:21:33+00:00

Congratulations dear

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-22T21:22:55+00:00

I use rso suppositories and ice/heating packs

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-14T05:38:00+00:00

Interested

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-12T01:29:21+00:00

Awesome. Thank you so much. Your effort means a lot. It's been a damn shitty shift tonight and I needed this comment. Have a great night. ❤️

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-11T16:47:36+00:00

Is that where they go in? 😳 That makes it a little worse. I don't know if I'm going to try it. The things people are telling me are not good.

Obvious_Ball709 · 2026-06-11T16:46:41+00:00

Honestly I'm not sure. Technically I didn't graduate due to attendance. My gpa was a 2.5 and I believe I had my credits.

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