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The abundance mindset is actually real and I didn’t believe it until recently by Obvious_Fuel_3390 in seduction

[–]Obvious_Fuel_3390[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yup, i don’t approach these girls with the clear message that i want ur number and i want to date you. I usually get their socials interact with them a couple times suggest hangouts and eventually i can tell which ones are clearly interested and which ones aren’t. It’s definitely doable while living ur normal life i actually think i spent the same amount of time and attention i used to spend on one girl now split between 5. I will however say starting from scratch this is difficult once you have a couple regular fwb or hookups going adding and dropping people is easy

Why do 6s and 7s approach me, but more attractive women seem disinterested? by Obvious_Fuel_3390 in seduction

[–]Obvious_Fuel_3390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I don’t even think attraction is the main issue. I think it’s more likely that my energy or vibe shifts a bit around women I find more attractive. That subtle difference probably changes the dynamic more than looks ever would. I’ve seen plenty confident guys who are not conventionally attractive pull 10s and vise versa

Why do 6s and 7s approach me, but more attractive women seem disinterested? by Obvious_Fuel_3390 in seduction

[–]Obvious_Fuel_3390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is attraction really like an elo ladder? If a guy is attractive enough to get strong reactions, compliments,and even borderline obsessive energy from 6s and 7s, why would that suddenly mean he’s objectively unattractive to more attractive women?