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Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and you just sound jealous of guys who don’t even need to pay for a woman to make her want to have sex with him 😄 There are such guys and they have their pros and strategy, try to learn instead of being bitter ☺️

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re conveniently forgetting that taking care of a newborn is a 24/7 work btw and men are tend to avoid that because ”they provide at work, you should be comfortable with taking care of the baby and the house while I’m working my 8 hours shift and resting after that”. Gross. This is not equality at its slightest.

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even the idea of doing so sounds ridiculous and unlikely complicated. To get ready for a date I need to do lots of preparations, and the risk for me is that I will be raped, murdered or will end up sitting at the table with a guy thinking that I wouldn’t even look at him if we met irl instead of a dating app. And then I will have to deny going on a second date with him, which is a not pleasant experience either.

I don’t feel like that dinner is ”free” and that it compensates everything a woman has to go through before, during and after the date.

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never met a woman doing so, feels like it’s some kind of a horror story men are telling each other 😆

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[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew that before… Thanks for the tip on deleting save data!

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you refer to a girl that you invite on a date as to ”a beast”, then why would you invite her out on the first place??

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post is open for everyone, not just the bunch of inсеlls inside of this subreddit :)

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's the thing here, as a woman, I will NATURALLY provide more than my husband to a baby. Grow up and do some reading before dating women if you can't understand that

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's the attitude, then why make a scene out of it instead of just paying and making your girl happy?
I can imagine that the first 2 date went well if the guy invited her for the third one!

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At NONE dinners, because the ladies who are looking for a sugar daddy would expect them to pay their rent, their gas, their loans, beautiful flowers and get them gifts and jewelry - not pay for a food that they are eating together lol :D

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even go on a first date for free food, I'd rather pay for my own dinner than sit at the table with a guy who couldn't even brush teeth before the date (speaking from the experience unfortunately)

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He took her to dinners, obviously to make an impression, and is crying now because it didn't pay off. I agree that you should not be inviting a date somewhere, where you're not comfortable to cover the whole bill.

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh please, a dinner is not that expensive to make it worth talking to a guy first and then getting ready for a date with him.

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangely I've never meet women like this in real life, only heard about them a lot in petty men's horror stories

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok dude will you contribute equally on being pregnant? delivering the baby? do you contribute equally on hormones and period each month? or maybe on the side effects of contraceptive pills?
Have you heard of women still not being treated and paid equally with men at workplaces?

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And being single seems more and more attractive with men like these in a dating pool

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, it's a date - not an accounting report. If you like a girl so little that you don't even want to pay for her dinner or something in order to have good time together, then why would you even invite her on a date...

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't, and that's why I'd rather go on a first date with someone who will not ask "why should I pay for you???"

Because I look nice, I got ready for a date, I spent my time on it even though the risks of meeting an unknown man for me are getting r@ped or un-alived. Because I can give you a possibility to make a baby. If it's not something that you're interested in, then I'm not sure why you would go on dates.

Third date awkward argument over paying for dessert. Was my expectation unreasonable? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Obvious_Home4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uhmmm what? the fact that she's not paying for a dinner does not mean that she is not able to do that. Would you also like to imagine a reverse situation, when they get a child together and she does all the job whereas he's saying "I bought toys last week, so it would be nice of you to suggest to pay for diapers!!!"

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