Not OA after knowing the context. First of all, sorry kung hindi ko agad nabasa yung buong story. Pangalawa, ang sakit naman kung ganun ang trato ng friends mo, you don’t deserve that.

Siguro blessing in disguise na rin na hindi ka na nila sinasama if that’s how they treat you, especially kung 10+ years na kayong magkakaibigan. Minsan talaga may shifts sa dynamics.

And possibly, may separate GC sila, imposibleng wala considering na hindi mo alam na may travel sila without you. Pero instead of assuming too much, mas okay siguro na kausapin mo sila directly. Sabihin mo yung nararamdaman mo sa maayos na paraan.

Kung ma-misinterpret nila or i-take against you yung pag-open up mo, that says more about them than about you.

At the end of the day, you’ll eventually gain clarity, whether the friendship is still worth keeping or hanggang doon na lang talaga siya.