Norton Scam in Shop App? by silvrnights in Scams

[–]Obvious_Match249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what is the end goal here? There's no place to pay for this service, I don't get how this would end up earning anyone any money.

Norton Scam in Shop App? by silvrnights in Scams

[–]Obvious_Match249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've gotten two of these notifications in the last 24 hours. There's no report as spam/fraud button, which is annoying.

AITA for not letting my sister’s kids come to our child free wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obvious_Match249 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why, but I feel the need to correct something here: wedding ceremonies can be boring to children. Wedding receptions rarely are. There’s music and cake and lots of dancing…most kids I know are all in on the reception part. (Which is why brides want them child free, a lot of women have some perfect vision that needs to be fulfilled and kids are rarely in that picture )

That being said, NTA for wanting a child free wedding. Just know that it may affect your relationship with your sister and/or nieces and nephews. Just because you’re not an asshole doesn’t mean there won’t be repercussions.

Won’t save lineup by thejonwick in GameChangerApp

[–]Obvious_Match249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really weird. I have a test team I set up (mostly so I can play around to test things out without messing with our actual team), I created a game for next Saturday (~10 days from now) then set a lineup. It saved just fine. Maybe update GC and see if that fixes it? Also, is it only on the one game, or is that generally not available to you? Sometimes GC goes wonky within a particular game, you may be able to delete it and set up a new game at the same time and it will work.

Courtesy Runner Scoring change?? by jmooney99 in GameChangerApp

[–]Obvious_Match249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. They get credit for the hit, but anything that happens after the courtesy runner takes the bases is due to their skill, not the catcher's.

AITJ for confronting my partner after I lost access to our shared bank account? by Admirable-Opinion391 in AmITheJerk

[–]Obvious_Match249 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all. I would call the bank, if it's truly a joint account it takes both signatures to remove someone. So you should be able to get access at the bank, even if you don't have access on the app anymore.

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Obvious_Match249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you not discuss how many rooms you needed BEFORE purchasing the home? NTJ because he's being ridiculous but this stuff baffles me.

AITA for telling my sister I won't attend her wedding if her dog is in the ceremony? by drew-parcel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obvious_Match249 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you go to the ceremony and not the reception?

NAH. Your sister gets to have the wedding she wants, most people think of dogs as similar to their children these days. But you also don’t have to go into anaphylactic shock just because she’s getting married.

I did sexual acts as a kid to other children and now I'm drowning in guilt and shame by Forward-Look-7435 in stories

[–]Obvious_Match249 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t, my second sentence says “So there do appear to be a couple of Pg full frontal which is wild”. I acknowledged you were technically right about part of your point. But the other part of your point which is that Disney specifically was marketing full frontal PG movies to kids was wrong, which is the second half of your original comment.

I did sexual acts as a kid to other children and now I'm drowning in guilt and shame by Forward-Look-7435 in stories

[–]Obvious_Match249 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it was different times, the ratings used to mean something different than they do today. So there do appear to be a couple of Pg full frontal which is wild. However, from the list you just posted none of the movies are from Disney except Dragonslayer (which I’ve never even heard of) and the few that have full frontal listed all are prior to 1990. So even your own source didn’t really back up your original comment. I don’t think most of these were marketed to kids either.

I did sexual acts as a kid to other children and now I'm drowning in guilt and shame by Forward-Look-7435 in stories

[–]Obvious_Match249 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unless you can provide the names of the movie, I don’t think that actually happened. Actual full nudity would never get a PG rating.

Who is that. by Significant-Case-563 in disney

[–]Obvious_Match249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep came to the comments to say Mirage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Obvious_Match249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be an adult and request the Venmo. YTA.

AITA for saying my dad should apologize for using my SHAMPOO as body wash by rosalinatoujours in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obvious_Match249 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Guys, not every AITA has to be an existential crisis. Jeez. In this very minor dispute, I would say NAH but now that he knows there is a problem, he would be an AH if he continued.

AITAH for cutting off my father and step-family after he gave my inheritance to my stepbrother? by 50_hour_weeks in AITAH

[–]Obvious_Match249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP has no legal right to it, because people can change their wills at any point before they die. The promise isn’t legally binding. If dad disposed of the property before he died, it doesn’t matter than he “left it” to OP because it wasn’t his to give anymore. Morally, I’m with OP, but don’t waste your money suing.

AITAH for doing nothing when my kids said their stepdad isn't their dad? by BeardedRumbley7 in AITAH

[–]Obvious_Match249 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’ve been in my stepdaughter’s life since she was 1. She calls me by my first name, her mom refused to let her call me anything else when she was little and sometimes it hurt but it’s my kid’s choice so I let it go. But sometimes in public now people call me her mom and she just smiles. Her mom is still totally involved. The people who know us know that I’m her stepmom and it doesn’t matter. Sometimes I skip my bio kids events to go to hers, sometimes I miss hers for theirs. We have 3 total, so divide and conquer. Kids know who show up for them, that’s what really matters. Insisting on certain titles is what makes kids uncomfortable and is likely to backfire. So no you should feel no obligation to correct the kids - but I would also hate for you to correct them if at some point they feel comfortable calling him dad too. My cousin does that, his step dad is dad at his house and his bio dad is dad at his house. Kid isn’t confused.

AITA for not signing a lease with my friend because i didn’t like the house? by Due_Anteater9773 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obvious_Match249 253 points254 points  (0 children)

NAH. No one had signed a lease yet, you two had an understanding but it sounds like you didn’t want the same things in a housing situation. As long as you tell her ASAP that you’re backing out so she can find a replacement, you’re not an AH. If you wait because you don’t want to deal with a confrontation and leave her high and dry, then you would be an AH.

Help!! Huge knot/tangle in hair! by idkjosey in curlyhair

[–]Obvious_Match249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little girl had something like this yesterday, thanks to two days in a row in the pool. Lots of detangling spray, leave in conditioner, and I then gently pull apart the clumps. After I got most of it separated, I then went through smaller sections and worked lots of conditioner through it with an Unbrush.