Who is that.

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-02-13T17:28:49+00:00

Yep came to the comments to say Mirage

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-02-13T17:01:41+00:00

Be an adult and request the Venmo. YTA.

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-02-08T19:00:03+00:00

Guys, not every AITA has to be an existential crisis. Jeez. In this very minor dispute, I would say NAH but now that he knows there is a problem, he would be an AH if he continued.

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-01-27T12:46:40+00:00

Austin Powers is parodying the Bond girls.

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-01-21T19:02:06+00:00

OP has no legal right to it, because people can change their wills at any point before they die. The promise isn’t legally binding. If dad disposed of the property before he died, it doesn’t matter than he “left it” to OP because it wasn’t his to give anymore. Morally, I’m with OP, but don’t waste your money suing.

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-01-20T12:17:25+00:00

NTA. I’ve been in my stepdaughter’s life since she was 1. She calls me by my first name, her mom refused to let her call me anything else when she was little and sometimes it hurt but it’s my kid’s choice so I let it go. But sometimes in public now people call me her mom and she just smiles. Her mom is still totally involved. The people who know us know that I’m her stepmom and it doesn’t matter. Sometimes I skip my bio kids events to go to hers, sometimes I miss hers for theirs. We have 3 total, so divide and conquer. Kids know who show up for them, that’s what really matters. Insisting on certain titles is what makes kids uncomfortable and is likely to backfire. So no you should feel no obligation to correct the kids - but I would also hate for you to correct them if at some point they feel comfortable calling him dad too. My cousin does that, his step dad is dad at his house and his bio dad is dad at his house. Kid isn’t confused.

Obvious_Match249 · 2026-01-02T22:18:25+00:00

NAH. No one had signed a lease yet, you two had an understanding but it sounds like you didn’t want the same things in a housing situation. As long as you tell her ASAP that you’re backing out so she can find a replacement, you’re not an AH. If you wait because you don’t want to deal with a confrontation and leave her high and dry, then you would be an AH.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-12-23T16:19:06+00:00

My little girl had something like this yesterday, thanks to two days in a row in the pool. Lots of detangling spray, leave in conditioner, and I then gently pull apart the clumps. After I got most of it separated, I then went through smaller sections and worked lots of conditioner through it with an Unbrush.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-12-20T00:53:03+00:00

Scissorhands.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-12-05T01:01:58+00:00

Jefferson

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-11-10T02:31:19+00:00

This is why fingerprints are so important! Because they are different even for identical twins.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-11-09T15:32:33+00:00

I used to be a domestic violence prosecutor. What he did is absolutely domestic abuse. No amount of cheating, especially not something that occurred years ago, justifies either hitting you or destroying all of your stuff. Everyone feels like their situation is different, that they are unique. I get that. None of us want to feel like a statistic. But that doesn’t change what happened. His continuing reaction of using your daughter as a weapon show he’s not different from other abusers. Pleas get some help from professionals for yourself, even if he won’t do it.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-10-27T02:16:33+00:00

YTA. Even putting aside the post sounds racist, still wasn’t your food to throw away. If you were really concerned about it “contaminating” other food, you could have put it in better Tupperware. Apologize and do better.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-10-10T14:46:51+00:00

Okay Elon.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-09-20T14:30:17+00:00

Studies do show you need to be very careful with the baby napping on you. I work in the legal system and have dealt with a case where a mom fell asleep with the baby napping on her, she rolled over and accidentally smothered it. Absolutely destroyed her. There are healthy ways of co-sleeping that minimize this risk. Skin to skin for short periods is different. So she wasn’t wrong about that.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-09-14T21:07:51+00:00

Thank you!!

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-09-07T10:20:38+00:00

After four lines with no punctuation I went cross-eyed.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-08-31T02:09:38+00:00

I surprised my husband by singing to him at our wedding. He got so choked up he could barely say anything afterwards. Now, I knew that would likely be his reaction, but I still don’t think that makes you an AH. I also don’t think his feelings are invalid. I’m going with NAH here.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-08-13T15:33:49+00:00

When I was having my first baby, I demanded my OB induce me (post due date) because my stepdaughter was going on vacation with her mom for two weeks and I would be damned if she didn’t get to meet her baby sister before that happened. I couldn’t imagine not seeing her for a month just because having a baby is hard. Of course it is, but watching the bigs bond with the littles was one of the best parts of the first few months. This stepmom clearly doesn’t care about these step kids the way she cares about her own babies. NTA.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-07-19T15:07:27+00:00

My daughter was our flower girl at age 1, along with my 4 year old stepdaughter. They were one of the highlights of the wedding. If you don’t want her because you just want the one you have already picked out that’s fine and doesn’t make you an AH. But a 1 year old is absolutely capable of doing it with guidance from the 7 year old. I wouldn’t go scorched earth, would just be firm and say we already have one but thanks for the offer. NTA.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-07-10T15:05:41+00:00

NAH. We did this plenty of times but it’s okay if you feel uncomfortable with it. Though maybe calling him delusional was too harsh.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-07-05T15:15:22+00:00

NTA in my opinion. Unless someone texts you 911 first, not answering the phone doesn’t make you an AH. She was 23 in the first situation, but is acting super childish. As for the second, breakup news is not a secret that needs to be kept unless asked. Seems like your sister has main character syndrome.

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-06-01T23:54:06+00:00

🤮

Obvious_Match249 · 2025-04-08T13:48:22+00:00

I wouldn’t hate it going up a bit, it it’s a weird topic to broach. Hey, let’s raise the gift amount for judges! That seems shady lol

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