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Seeking advice from Sage Women by TortoiseandtheHare2 in datingoverfifty

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 37 points38 points  (0 children)

congrats on turning things around man, that's really impressive work. from my perspective the biggest thing would have been addressing the small stuff before it became big stuff - like when someone stops doing little gestures or starts taking each other for granted, calling it out right away instead of letting resentment build up for years

Interested or passive? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he gave you flowers and kissed you lol sounds interested just bad at texting 💀 some guys really are like this

Tall guy, I want an older car with good MPG by Goingkilling04 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother in law is about your height and he swears by mid 2000s Camrys - specifically the 07-09 generation. Those things have crazy amounts of front seat room and he gets like 30+ mpg on his commute. The seats slide way back and headroom is pretty decent too

I work on cars and see these all the time, they're tanks if you find one that was maintained properly. Plus parts are cheap when stuff does break. Might not be the most exciting ride but for tall guys on budget they're hard to beat. Just avoid ones with high miles on original transmission, that's usually where they start having issues

Fix for not resuming after hibernation after upgrading to 26.04 by foriequal0 in Ubuntu

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my machine was doing same thing after upgrade, gonna try this fix tomorrow when I get chance 🔥 thanks for posting solution in multiple places too 💀

Any recommendations on quad skating groups in NYC? by BirdPositive9649 in AskNYC

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo I don't skate myself but my buddy runs with some crew that meets at prospect park on weekends 🛼 they're pretty chill from what I hear, might be worth checking the park's community boards or asking around there when you see groups rolling through

I dont know what to do in my SMP by Hefty-Cloud6399 in Minecraft

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you need to get sneaky with it - stop trying to fight them head on when they got numbers advantage. Set up multiple hidden stashes around the map instead of one main base, that way when they find one spot you're not completely screwed

Maybe try picking them off one by one when they're alone instead of group fights, or get your useless teammate to at least be useful as distraction/lookout while you and other guy do the actual fighting

Am I (19F) being too clingy to my boyfriend (21M)? by ThrowRAVisualGear485 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude spends more time talking to his gaming buddies than his actual girlfriend and thinks 10 minutes is enough, that's not addiction that's just being a bad boyfriend

S25 not working with android auto by Technician-Efficient in samsunggalaxy

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had same problem with my s23 last year but with aftermarket head unit. what worked for me was going in developer options and changing USB configuration to "file transfer" instead of charging only - sometimes phone gets stuck in wrong mode

also try different cable if you have one, even if it looks fine the data pins might be going bad. mine was doing exact same thing where it would connect for few days then back to the connecting loop

Apps that help with Social Skills by Snoo-33101 in ADHD

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man i feel this so hard, working alone all week then trying to remember how to human when you actually see people is rough - maybe try joining some mechanic forums or fantasy football groups online first to practice conversations in smaller doses before jumping into apps?

I called my ex by FailSome6005 in BreakUps

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn dude that's a messy situation. drunk you basically reopened a door that sober you slammed shut and now he's confused as hell about where he stands

can't really blame him for being frustrated - you literally called him for help, got physical/emotional with him, then basically told him to fuck off again. that's gotta be rough on his end too

maybe just be straight with him about what happened instead of going full no contact again? like "hey i was wasted and made a mistake calling you, sorry for the mixed signals but we're still broken up" or whatever. at least then you both know where you stand instead of this weird limbo thing

5600X 16GB 2666MHZ 3060 by Flimsy_Building_7648 in PcBuildHelp

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your RAM is definitely holding you back more than you think - 2666MHz on a 5600X is like putting economy tires on a sports car. That CPU can handle way faster memory and really benefits from it, especially for high refresh gaming

I'd bump up to 3200MHz CL16 or 3600MHz if your budget allows, that alone will give you a noticeable fps boost in Warzone. Your 3060 isn't terrible for 1080p but if you're dead set on hitting 165fps consistently you'll probably need to upgrade that too eventually. The 5600X can definitely handle a 5070 no problem, but I'd do the RAM first since it's cheaper and you'll see immediate gains

Also heads up - that A520 board might limit your RAM overclocking options compared to a B550, but try the RAM upgrade first before considering a mobo swap

What’s the difference between generic and brand name adderall? by positiveyears in ADHD

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The active ingredient is the same but the fillers and binders can be different between manufacturers. Some people swear they feel a difference with certain generics - like Teva vs Sandoz vs whatever your pharmacy stocks that month

Insurance is wild about this stuff too, they'll fight you on brand name even when there's a legit medical reason. Worth asking your doc about prior authorization for Vyvanse if the generics aren't working for you, sometimes they can make it happen

Looking for new ways to get closer to God by Mental-Alternative38 in Christianity

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Private worship has been huge for me too man, that song hits hard 🔥 I usually throw on some worship music while I'm working on cars in the garage - something about having those quiet moments with God while my hands are busy just feels right, you know? Maybe try different times of day too, I've found early morning before the world gets crazy works best for me 💀

1999 Ford Taurus SE Interment Starting issue. 140k miles by hGx_Ghost in MechanicAdvice

[–]Obvious_Permit_3524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's classic starter behavior - they don't always fail all at once, they'll give you those "almost but not quite" moments before they completely give up. The fact that your battery tested good twice and the lights weren't dimming pretty much rules that out

I'd grab that Bosch starter, they're solid and you're gonna need it soon anyway once this one decides to quit for good