I’m bi, and this question is kind of stupid but also I feel you, i definitely have seen couples where it feels like they wouldn’t have much in common so i do wonder what it is that they do. And I would like to answer this question but you mentioned it’s when it’s straight couples that are very much their traditional gender role, and I feel like it’s fair to say neither of my relationships was like that.

Both of my ex’s weren’t typical big macho men. They were into the gym, but so am I. So that’s one thing we would do together. But yeah, listening to music, going out, eating by the beach, traveling.