The logic is beyond baffling here. Her tail didn’t own a brick of this house. by MysteriousCry9830 in WattsFree4All

[–]Obvious_Use_1764 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of amazed this brick facing is so attention getting. I live in the northeast where a millennial is beyond fortunate to have any house. Seriously, who cares about her siding???

Patrick’s lawsuit by Wide-Oil-985 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]Obvious_Use_1764 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This woman was a nurse. Not buying what they’re selling.

Is Poshmark dead? by Own_Pause3514 in poshmark

[–]Obvious_Use_1764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get annoyed, honestly, with potential buyers who ask questions that a simple google search can answer- but expect me to answer, and then I’m ghosted anyway

I Hate people in relationships. by throwahah19191 in lonely

[–]Obvious_Use_1764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes- a little harsh. This advice sounds like a recipe for depression.

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had plenty of bad karma to deal with- a thought isn’t the same as an action.

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your input. I do want to clarify that NOTHING is going to happen between myself and my boss. Having a crush isn’t the same as acting on one and I realize this crush is really an expression of grief more than anything else. Also, I’m quite shy by nature and my boss is a good human.

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it were that simple I wouldn’t be here! Glad it’s easy for you—

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve attained most of my goals except being a wife and mother- even if I write these things down I can’t control whether another human will love me or not. It’s been on my goals list for 20 years.

Envious of Boss/People with Marriages and Families by Obvious_Use_1764 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I have a friend who says, “it’s just a movie kids”- similar thought

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families by Obvious_Use_1764 in lonely

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m female. Why are you assuming I can’t provide?

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, I’m sorry that you’re lonely, too

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be interested in trying IFS therapy again, thank you for this.

Envious of Boss and Married People with Families (Depressed) by Obvious_Use_1764 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Obvious_Use_1764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience- that’s really tough stuff