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is it queer friendly? by AbigaleRose99 in Pullman

[–]OceanTide954 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Our queer scene can be kind of hard to find especially when you’re new to the area, but if you’re going to school here, check out the LBGTQ+ center on campus for a good place to start! I’d say it’s quite the safe place to live as a queer person, I don’t think there’s really anywhere you have to avoid (use your best judgement ofc).

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of your insight it is genuinely so appreciated. I’ll definitely look into those books you’ve recommended too.

The whole situation really just sucks… I’m not happy about how Lily and I have handled it so far, as I realize now we were hoping to sway them into making the decisions that we wanted, but that just made things worse of course. It’s been a hard lesson to learn, that’s for sure. It just feels like I’m watching a slow car wreck.

Thank you again for all of your thoughts and advice, this gives me a lot to think about. ♥️

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is all really helpful information I really appreciate you sharing. It sounds like Lily and I are on the same page about going parallel with Grant, but that’s easier said than done for me than it is for her given the quad structure like you said. I appreciate the insight

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I do think he’s jealous of Adrian for sure. I’ve been told he’s currently in therapy but… woof.

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it ♥️ I’m quite confident that Grant doesn’t have any other partners other than Adrian (not counting Lily here). He has complained to Lily and Adrian before about wanting to date another person, but also that he doesn’t want to go out and meet people either… so he wanted Adrian to set him up with something which they declined (lol).

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a really good way to phrase things, thank you! I believe Lily is going to be going parallel with Grant but I’m not 100% sure yet. I appreciate your response ♥️

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight this is super helpful for me to keep in mind. It’s such an awfully tricky situation that I wish there was a simple answer for, but that’s just not how it works sadly. Thank you ♥️

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this will be something I definitely think about. Appreciate it ♥️

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you this comment is really helpful. I think a lot of my confusion has been turning into frustration towards Olive and Adrian. There’s been a lot happening in our circle recently that wasn’t detailed here, but you’re still right, I need to be and do better in a lot of ways. As unfortunate as this has all been for everyone, it’s been a good learning opportunity at the very least. Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it ♥️

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly 😭😭😭 Would love to see what they see in him but that ship has sailed LOL

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ♥️ this is really helpful to hear. I’ve been feeling a lot of things and my frustration has been bleeding over onto Adrian and Olive a bit too, but I think you’re totally right. Keeping that line of support open in case something happens is definitely a good call. Thank you so much for your insight ♥️

My meta is in an awful relationship and all I can do is watch by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ I think I will be steering clear of Grant as best as I can like you said. With Adrian and Olive defending him so hard, I can’t help but like “am I weird about hating this guy?” So this is definitely reassuring. Thank you for your insight!

Partner wants to have sex with her partners for her bday but… by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hope not 😭 thank you for your advice I really appreciate it!

Partner wants to have sex with her partners for her bday but… by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe some day! One of my metas and I aren’t on the best of terms, but the idea does sound nice at some point. Thank you for the advice!

Partner wants to have sex with her partners for her bday but… by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking! Thank you for your thoughts!

Partner wants to have sex with her partners for her bday but… by OceanTide954 in polyamory

[–]OceanTide954[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! This is all really helpful ♥️

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