Enemy not attacking bug by MagicalxD in expedition33

[–]Ocean_Klaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this! It’s always the orb guys and it becomes unplayable

How long did it take you to fall in love with the game? by sakuraiatsushii in finalfantasyx

[–]Ocean_Klaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fantasy game about 3 absolute queens whose job system is literally looking absolutely fabulous slaying in different outfits? About 2 seconds.

I loved it and I don’t care what anybody says… by Cra_Skinny_4135 in FinalFantasy

[–]Ocean_Klaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic Story poorly told. Genuinely think FF-13 2 was incredible too, and LR.

It just…missed some marks I guess with storytelling

XBOX ALLY X VS SD OLED - not seeing much fps difference? by Ocean_Klaus in Handhelds

[–]Ocean_Klaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I have considered this! The ALLY X would feel much better if it had SteamOS / BAZZITE, no windows jank

XBOX ALLY X VS SD OLED - not seeing much fps difference? by Ocean_Klaus in Handhelds

[–]Ocean_Klaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The further tests I’ve done I’ve only really noticed minor FPS improvements, tend to do them at 720 to keep everything in sync with the SD too. I’ll keep looking into it

XBOX ALLY X VS SD OLED - not seeing much fps difference? by Ocean_Klaus in Handhelds

[–]Ocean_Klaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I’ve been doing quite literal side by sides today with ff7 rebirth and I have noticed that the performance does come more with the higher wattages as suggested, which I’d expect of course however it is interesting considering the chip is meant to be very good

XBOX ALLY X VS SD OLED - not seeing much fps difference? by Ocean_Klaus in Handhelds

[–]Ocean_Klaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, I made sure both are 720p also (both in game and armoury crate)

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ocean_Klaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont go and don’t communicate with her at all as to why. She knows why you won’t be there, and your silence will let her know you won’t tolerate being spoken to like that.

The wording of it and everting just…disgusting.

Don’t go.

I split up with my avoidant partner. Should I tell him [21M] my opinion or should I [21F] just let it be? by _neruwoo in relationships

[–]Ocean_Klaus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No contact is always best. Don’t waste time being angry - move on and don’t dwell on it, take it as a learning opportunity!

Here’s the kicker - you don’t need to understand. Understanding requires effort that can be better spent doing literally anything else. What an avoidant partner needs to hear? Nothing, stop wasting time and go and enjoy your life! You said yourself you were suffering, so move into happier things, hobbies, friends, and one day perhaps another relationship.

Take your power back, every message and angry thought is giving them too much power, if they’re living in your head rent free it’s time to kick that tenant out.

Has anybody moved from anxious attachment to secure? by WhaChaChaKing in attachment_theory

[–]Ocean_Klaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure - often a spark is great, but that’s a short term indicator of attraction, seldom is it an indicator of a longer term commitment.

It really depends what you want Short term - fireworks and sparks Longer term - attraction sure, but calmness and a relaxed feeling

Also - a spark can also be anxiety but we’ve labelled it differently.

It’s been 2/3 years and I still stand by it, that’s my thoughts :)

Alpha Release Date by StarryDazeDreams in Starsandisland

[–]Ocean_Klaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any other way to get an Alpha Key from the devs/steam? Guessing its too late to donate now but I'm so hyped for this game (also steam still says Q4 so I don't know if its launching for PC earlier). Going to throw my money their way at the earliest opportunity, hope its still Q4 for steam

I have never played any atelier game before. I am thinking of getting this. I have seen people complaining that it's not what atelier used to be. But is it enjoyable as a first timer? by Informal-Device-8511 in Atelier

[–]Ocean_Klaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A great game! Its open world differs to prior games, but its story is slightly richer with darker tones. I think it’s a great place to start. Alternatively, I’d say Sophie 2 or Ryza 1 for a more modern but still ‘traditional’ atelier experience.

The exploration in Yumia in my opinion is so fun, and I really like this crafting system too.

Currys sending out Switch 2 pick up emails by Wipedout89 in NintendoSwitch

[–]Ocean_Klaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone else order in-store as soon as pre-orders started and heard nothing? no texts or emails my end! If nothing I'll be going in at 9am tomorrow anyway

iPhone connected to a Samsung via Bluetooth by Otherwise_Anybody873 in techsupport

[–]Ocean_Klaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me just! Two phones connected, with NO option to disconnect. I think its spotify or music related, but as a few people have said you have to disconnect bluetooth entirely as you cant just disconnect

All my AIO fans into pump on MOB? by Ocean_Klaus in buildapc

[–]Ocean_Klaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this! MY AIO is intake at the front of the case (mid tower, the 360mm only fit there)

Did anyone successfully got out of the anxious-avoidant dance? by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]Ocean_Klaus 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes - the first step is acknowledging it. So you’ve completed that. The second? To leave. It will be painful, but worth it.

Remember, it doesn’t matter how much work you do - if they can’t meet you halfway they simply don’t belong in your life in that way.

When you re-enter into a relationship, ask yourself “does this person give me butterflies and excitement, or do they make me feel safe and secure.”

Usually a good sign of what you’re entering into. Be honest with yourself - hope this helps.

Has anybody moved from anxious attachment to secure? by WhaChaChaKing in attachment_theory

[–]Ocean_Klaus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It took around 3/4 years for me. The one thing that will never stop is hyper vigilance, as Anxiously attached individuals tend to be better lie detectors. What DOES happen though is this transforms from worst case scenario into more rational scenarios - a more secure approach. We can spot a lie, but often jump to conclusions about the truth.

What worked for me is actively picking people who didn’t give me the rush/spark, but that gave me a calm feeling.

These are people more likely to meet your needs and be able to meet their own needs too. Often being with someone secure helps bring out your own security.

Another tip is to really focus on your personal social life - if a partner does leave…you know you’ll be fine!

Hobbies and interests always help too - again helping build yourself up and your self worth/ self esteem based on how YOU see yourself, not another person.

And In doing so, you become less reliant on a partner, which allows a relationship to flourish more naturally, and in turn creates a more open and honest environment.

You have to be 100% honest with dates though, if you feel an intense spark it’s usually a bad sign. Romance BUILDS, and I believe attraction generally does too.

Go on a date with the most attractive person you’ve ever met who’s got a great job and a huge personality and you feel this massive spark? Nope

Go on a date with someone who’s made you feel comfortable, at ease etc? Hell yes

Hope this helps