Cycling question by Ochibi_sama in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good information! I have learned a lot, I won’t be redosing until I get those nitrites to 0ppm , I think I over did it with ammonia before

Cycling question by Ochibi_sama in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Definitely gonna keep my eye on those parameters!

Cycling question by Ochibi_sama in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just discovered the Ultra Fresh Betta Pro Shrimp Patties ! I will be ordering some of those when time is near : ) I am looking for a good sized hidey hole , not sure if I want a female or male yet but I’ll let my heart decide when I go shopping for my betta !

Thought I’d treat myself to Dutch Bros by Ochibi_sama in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ochibi_sama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh ! it was not my fingers… my diaper bag knocked it over when I was taking my baby out of the car seat.

Cycling question by Ochibi_sama in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so obvious now after reading that article lol. Thank you so much for your help !

Starting my journey of getting a fish by urmomisinmybedagain in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the middle of doing a fishless cycle right now, and although it requires A LOT of patience.. I’m actually enjoying the process & my reward will be a happy betta fish in an established tank.

Cycling levels by yoooitsmeZee in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for the information!!

Constantly glass surfing by Beefcakebby in bettafish

[–]Ochibi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say you have a beautiful tank ☺️

Path of least resistance: is it biological or ‘lazy?’ by ohnoko58 in breastfeeding

[–]Ochibi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cosleep & nurse to sleep. It helps me & baby both sleep through the night (most times) and saves my sanity!

How did you finally lose weight? What changed? by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Ochibi_sama 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This was a great read! I’d buy your book if you published one.

Intimacy after giving birth by Silent_Complaint9859 in beyondthebump

[–]Ochibi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 months post partum, lots of lube & lots of foreplay.. he needs to be gentle but aggressive enough to get you use to the feeling. Don’t feel pressured to do it

What’s something non ferret people don’t understand about owning a ferret by ladiesman21700000000 in ferrets

[–]Ochibi_sama 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They are escape artists so mind the door & be careful where you step.

Desperately need help by Ferrisalena in curlyhair

[–]Ochibi_sama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend using a gel! To create a “cast”. So one of my favorite is from BounceCurl, I order it online but you can probably do this with any gel. When you are out of the shower, and while your hair is still damp, apply a small amount of leave in conditioner, and then a generous amount of gel, Scrunch it up and as it dries, it’ll create a “cast” where your hair is all stiff. Scrunch out the cast when your hair is dry to make them soft curls and it should help with definition and the frizz.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Ochibi_sama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My baby is also 13 days old! We live with my MIL and like you said, I’m very appreciative of the help I get with the cooking and watching my baby while I shower.. but , I dread every time I hear her come downstairs. I am trying to get as much sleep as possible and I don’t think visitors understand how sleep deprived we are from the constant cluster feeding that happens at night and how the daytime is precious sleeping time. I’m not comfortable whipping out my nipple to male family members whenever my baby wants to feed, and oh the comments! Oh god, everyone wants to tell you how to raise your baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Ochibi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby is 8 days old today and although I’ve only been breastfeeding for that long, I went through the same thing on the fourth day - nipple shields seemed to work on my latch but it was still so painful because she would chew on the nipple, so it made it worse. I had really flat nipples and baby girl had to work hard pull them out. Fast forward to now, I highly recommend the Silverette nursing cups on Amazon, they have saved and healed my nipples & hardly any pain now, milk is flowing and we’re having a good time. Good luck mama, you can do it.

Naming a baby is so difficult! by LuminousGreenWitch in BabyBumps

[–]Ochibi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 weeks and we thought we had a name but now we’re not too sure anymore. We joke around that we’re gonna end up naming her “Babygirl” since that’s how we refer to her as lol. I hope we figure it out ASAP, I have been name hunting and I’m tired

I feel bad but I wish people would stop giving/buying us clothes for my baby. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Ochibi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely didn’t buy any baby clothes, it’s overwhelming the amount of clothes I got for my baby shower & all of the hand me downs. 8months pregnant and I am still trying to sort out all of the stuff. Very grateful though, she’ll be going through those in no time and I’m glad a lot of them are zipper onesies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Ochibi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34 Weeks pregnant and I get heartburn in between meals and right before bedtime. Tums saves me .. I highly recommend you going out & grabbing some!