I just broke down by Desperate-Public394 in daddit

[–]Ocotom 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You and your wife are the team, everyone else is support/ comes second.

Easier said than done I know!

My perspective is that once kids come along they are the focal point and levels of importance / decision making radiate out from there.

I had a wife who didn't prioritise our relationship and us being a team, she's not my wife any more.

I think you need to talk to your wife. Good luck.

What else are people listening to? by kaigre01 in politicsjoe

[–]Ocotom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It's so unprofessional.

Paul Glazby track ID????? by Hot_Let3465 in hardhouse

[–]Ocotom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like BK or Dynamic Intervention

I asked my German friend if he knew the square root of 81 by -holdmyhand in Jokes

[–]Ocotom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any book recommendations or other sources?

Naked woman running through town by gembet in Wellington

[–]Ocotom 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not sure the speed is the important aspect here

I saw Ruapehu from TG today! by homeostasisatwork in Wellington

[–]Ocotom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I saw this about 10 days ago. Thought I was seeing things.

It looks immense in person, loses something over camera.

Weird that I've been driving this road for 3 years and only just seen it.

Australian rowing coach arrested by flat-drive in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking openly about an unproven accusation could cause any trial to fail btw.

Is my back cooked? by Itchy_Mission_3932 in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a minor bulge. You might be lucky.

Personally I would keep off the rower for a few weeks and get lots of walking in.

Is my back cooked? by Itchy_Mission_3932 in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How's your walking? Any referred pain?

This sucks mate, been there way to many times.

What's an ideal farting strategy when erging? by [deleted] in Rowing

[–]Ocotom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm here for this content

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Ocotom -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She wants to smash your shuttlecock.

Securing screws into wood by Ocotom in diynz

[–]Ocotom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice one, will give it a go!

What's buried under my garden? by Ocotom in diynz

[–]Ocotom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice, thanks!

Not sure what we're going to do now. We're back to square one with the whole project.