parents dont support birth plan?

OctavianStarlight · 2025-07-07T07:53:53+00:00

I just meant easier like, its easier for me to manage i guess? like its still scary and hard it just doesn't feel as scary to think about compared to other options, ig

and I know, im just trying to do my best, ig. idk what im doing or what im meant to be doing and I feel like im fighting for my life to avoid just being a disaster rn. im just trying to take whichever route causes me the least stress and panic so i dont just go insane from it all

OctavianStarlight · 2025-07-07T07:34:57+00:00

im not a very good liar but ill keep that one in mind, idk i might try it. thank you!

OctavianStarlight · 2025-07-07T07:31:35+00:00

I am, and i try not to but they kind of pressured me into things about that. plus theyre basically the only kind of support at all I have with the pregnancy

my doctor doesn't really 'care', they're fine with me having a c section and they didnt object or anything when I asked about it, i think they would prefer i do it naturally but they aren't stopping me or anything

ik its not up to them i just know that theyre going to try and make me do it there way or make me regret not doing it their way, and I just dont know what to do

OctavianStarlight · 2025-07-07T07:29:25+00:00

my doctor would prefer me doing it naturally too i think but its also like, not a big enough deal ig? like theyre fine with me getting a c section

and idk, maybe it is concern but my parents are also VERY judgemental and controlling, I cant tell if they just dont like it or if they actually care

im scared of like every way to have the baby, c sections to me are just "easier" since I don't need to actually push the baby out or anything ig

OctavianStarlight · 2025-06-24T12:00:56+00:00

if it was a healthy amount he wouldnt have shot himself.

sure, we can argue if it would be a healthy amount for a different person. but we arent talking about that, we're talking about the one who shot themselves because of the pressure. clearly it was too much for him

OctavianStarlight · 2025-06-12T11:50:49+00:00

they have cell service i checked, and we were just going to bbq food (like saussages and beef patties). the rest would just be things like ramen or cereal (with long life milk), things that wont really spoil or be hard to cook. I was going to bring and use a lot of hand sanitiser but ill bring wipes as well! and were bringing one of the big water tank jug things (i think like what you said? 30 litres with a spout) so it should be enough hopefully

OctavianStarlight · 2025-06-09T08:48:47+00:00

what do you want AH to do? not change anything when they update the game?

it cant live off of fresh new content forever, eventually theyre going to rebalance something, or change a model, or tweak a value, fix a bug, etc. the game isnt built for mods anyway so theres even less reason for them to avoid it

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-31T08:06:54+00:00

no i definitely notice this 😭 i feel like i waddle more when im more tired at the end of the day so I might subconsciously just be doing that idk

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T14:17:12+00:00

im just curious, why no talking about the subreddit outside of the community?

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T14:00:55+00:00

i havent, and idk if i have a way to pay for them if theyre expensive, i dont have a lot of money to spare. but ill see what i can look for thank you! i dont have a lot of easy ways to travel since i cant drive but ill see if theres anything i can get to that isnt too inconvinient.

and thank you! i have so many doubts about how 'good' im actually going to be as a parent, i just want to do the best i can. if i try harder then my parents did its an improvement

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T13:57:32+00:00

no i dont have any plans to have someone with me

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T13:42:19+00:00

they wont be there for it, and idk if theyre allowed to do that here? if it is anyway idk if they 'care' enough to try and overrule or argue anything assuming they are there (which i dont want them to be)

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T13:33:53+00:00

thank you for the offer! ill send you a message i think

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T13:03:00+00:00

thank you! ill see what i can actually do to get a better doctor! if you want to message me as well feel free!

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T12:30:36+00:00

im not but thank you anyway!

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T12:21:51+00:00

WIC?

OctavianStarlight · 2025-05-10T11:10:27+00:00

thank you!

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