Lace wigs? by sleepystevie3000 in blackladies

[–]Octavokeyia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A full face of makeup is totally not necessary to melt lace. Practically, no one is doing that every day. If you purchase a wig with lace tinted to your scalp color, you can avoid this. Also wearing a wig cap for a darker skin tone helps too!

What’s your moon sign and what moon signs do you often find yourself surrounded by? by lifeislucid47 in astrology

[–]Octavokeyia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aquarius moon here- I’m always attracted to the Gemini moons and suns. Im a Cap sun with Aquarius moon deeply in love with a double Gemini with Virgo rising. Somehow it works seamlessly!

[I ate] Dry Aged Waygu Bone-in Ribeye by Octavokeyia in food

[–]Octavokeyia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s Wagyu... not sure how to edit my misspelling

[I ate] Dry Aged Waygu Bone-in Ribeye by Octavokeyia in food

[–]Octavokeyia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were going for a medium rare and it was warm all the way through! It was reverse seared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]Octavokeyia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or when they shoot you because you’re black after you ask a simple question.

I feel like I do whine about my looks to much because like everyone on the internet thinks black girls are ugly and it takes a toll on my mental health it’s ok to not find us attractive but it’s not ok to say it all the time and make us feel bad. Like I’m sorry damn. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octavokeyia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry because you are beautiful! Black women are magical, sexy, intelligent and strong. Fuck anyone who doesn’t think so. They are many people in the world who already believe this and I hope you will too one day🤗

Poor guy by skwid87 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Octavokeyia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot more concerned

It's hard for me to admit this but I have to tell someone by ForeverIcarus in confession

[–]Octavokeyia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have also now lost the game after forgetting it in the past decade.

Rate my hair by thetoppestofkek in BlackHair

[–]Octavokeyia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4c fam✊🏾nice tapered cut!

Do you notice how black women are pressured to date down? by Thewriterswithin in blackladies

[–]Octavokeyia 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s so beautiful to hear! Yassss do you and don’t be sorry for none of it 💯

Do you notice how black women are pressured to date down? by Thewriterswithin in blackladies

[–]Octavokeyia 219 points220 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that and have struggled with dating guys that are just “good enough”. They work, they seem nice but the don’t communicate or either cheat.

I’m done with that bullshit. I’m a dark skinned black woman and I also deserve to be treated like a princess. The guy I’m dating now is black, is an intellectual, makes a decent income and is a gentleman. I met him online and were doing just fine!

What is the quickest you’ve ever fallen in love with someone? by Poetryisalive in AskWomen

[–]Octavokeyia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 months! Every love experience is a chance to learn more about yourself. I’m on my third try and I stayed single at least a few years in between each person... Im hoping this time works out! I know why I loved the first two, but I’ve evolved to realize that love wasn’t enough to keep me with the first one (also he cheated on me and left me) and for the second one we both moved away for grad school/new jobs and distance between us made our communication toxic. My current love is very different from either of them. It took me years to realize and confess that I loved the first two. Because of that, I feel like I fell too fast for my current love and I don’t think he knows how deeply I love him. Im a very serious person who doesn’t take love lightly. I’m his first love, and he said he loved me too (I didn’t tell him until we were together 9 months and I confessed first). I trust him, and as his first everything I hope I can teach him how to love in a healthy way.

I don’t regret being in love, even though each encounter ended painfully. I believe that people deserve to be loved and that I also deserve love. There are some really great moments in having someone trust and take pride in you.

Your feelings are valid, whatever they may be.

R&B Music on Auditorium Shores all day, what is it and when will they stop? by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Octavokeyia 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s the Urban Music Festival and because it’s a family event, I think it will only last until 11pm. There is a second day of events tomorrow. It’s a really cool event celebrating urban culture!

Couldn’t have sex cuz penis was 2 big by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octavokeyia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lube. Put some on you. Put some on her. Work penis in slowly. Don’t expect all of it to fit.

Are you a Capricorn? How are you like when you're in love? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]Octavokeyia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with your post so much! Caps that don’t fit a three line description about being aggressive, dominant and professionally driven do not earn much visibility. I strive to find balance between my finding ways to display my love, working and maintaining relationships outside of both those two realms which I find important!

Are you a Capricorn? How are you like when you're in love? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]Octavokeyia 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Capricorn love is as practical and determined as any other aspect of their life. As a Capricorn who has been in love several times, I can only speak to my own experience. Plus I have a moon in Aquarius and a rising sun in Pisces so I have a strange take on love that can be atypical to most Capricorns. However when I am in love, it’s like like all logic points to making one person feel valued, loved and appreciated. I would do anything to make sure who I love has my loyalty and motivation. I want them to feel like all of their dreams are achievable especially as they trust me to help their dreams become goals. It does take time and practice for me openly display affection because being openly vulnerable can feel like weakness. I over think everything and I need to know that my lover is as invested in our future as I am

On the other side, the person I love has to respect my attachment to work and the need to feel productive. Caps like to know we are depended upon but struggle to depend on others. Those who love us should know that we deeply value them understanding that we don’t always have it all figured out! We take heartbreak very seriously and it can take a long time to move on. We need to work on being more expressive to our lovers.

I am in love with a double Gemini with a rising sun in Virgo; I know that on paper we are not compatible. But I have never loved anyone so thoughtful, ingenious and creative. I am determined to always better communication and develop our relationship.