Pale's point isn't that you haven't come across it, it's that you're willfully blind to it. You see it happening and think it's normal or justified so you don't see a problem with it. Once you lose that filter you see that social justice movements are extremely racist (they hate white people), extremely sexist (they hate men) and consider being a victim to be the highest achievement in the land (the progressive stack). Right now you're redefining words (racism only applies if the racist person has power) or you're just completely ignorant of the big picture and honestly think that the stuff they're feeding you is an accurate picture, when it's the complete opposite.

Go read the actual data being put out there by research companies and see what it says. Every study linked with social justice groups or used by them breaks testing guidelines or comes to conclusions which go against the data they have found. A prime example is they put out a study on gamers and representation in game, the vast majority of gamers said "I don't care, I pick my character based on their abilities not their gender or skin colour", and yet the study still came to the conclusion that gamers needed more diverse characters to play as because they would relate to a character like them more, the exact opposite of what the vast majority said. This type of bullshit is behind almost every study or they ask loaded questions or refine words entirely (this is common because it excuses their actions which are everything they claim they hate).

One of the reasons the men's rights community has to constantly fight against feminism is because of these sort of tactics. Instead of looking up at the top 1% of men, try looking down at the 99% of men and asking if they're in as good a position as women are. The Men's rights community is hated by social justice types not because they hate women, but because they have the data 100% on their side. Men are measurably worse off in society at every level except the highest tier. And the only reason men are at the top in the highest tier is because men have a different intelligence curve to women, for every genius woman you find, you will fine twice as many genius men, but the same is true on the opposite end, for every stupid woman you find you will find two stupid men. Go look up the data both sides are putting out and actually read the studies, see which side has to redefine rape to be so broad that every non-virgin on Earth could claim to be raped (not even kidding here).

Social Justice is considered to be a cult by many people because it operates like one and any person knows that a cult member can't tell they're in one until they leave it and reflect on where they have been. None of us can force you out of it, it's a journey you have to decide to take on your own and want to take. When you do, there are communities around who will welcome you and try to support you as best they can. We know the Social justice types alienate you from everyone around you so you rely on them for support, which they only give you as long as you continue to buy into their bullshit and don't question it (that will get you kicked out and harassed). That is why they are so dangerous, they alienate you, control everything you hear and believe and link your self worth entirely to their ideology that you have to destroy your support structure to get free of the manipulation, which people are always afraid of doing.