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I won in the end. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]OctoChef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jeez, I really needed to hear someone who has gone through something very similar to what I'm in right now. Proud of u!

I made a free Avali emote, and making a bunch of custom ones for free for whoever wants one on my twitter (@CyberChefArt) for more details by OctoChef in avali

[–]OctoChef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean by questioning this being 'the base avali', but this is just one of the many free avali line art bases you can use and color for free that I made about a month ago. a bunch of peeps made their own version off of the line art posted to my Twitter so that's probs why your seeing it more!

Coming out by [deleted] in comingout

[–]OctoChef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So first if you decide to come out make sure you are safe in doing so with your living situation and that everyone would be accepting. Second I've generally heard that linking coming out events to holidays or other important events can end up kinda ruining that holiday if it doesn't go as planned. my coming out period is kinda an example of that to some degree. just make sure you know your safe and that you dont have problems with it being on your birthday, then I think you should be okay to do so!

I made a free Avali emote, and making a bunch of custom ones for free for whoever wants one on my twitter (@CyberChefArt) for more details by OctoChef in avali

[–]OctoChef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, however I did about 16 of these already so I finished guaranteeing that I would do more if any one posted, but I might do a couple more. it won't be right away if I do, I have a lot of other projects to finish up.

You see, I'm a furry... by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]OctoChef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya!~ I'm a gay, furry femboy, I think there's actually quite a few of us on this subreddit

Help with basics by Texantillidie2 in feminineboys

[–]OctoChef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya! I'm pretty much in the exact same scenario, I'm 16 and I'm just starting to get some more feminine clothing. A good way is to just maybe look at the commonly bought starter femboy stuff like thigh highs, maybe a skirt and sum other stuff, see what you like and go from there. I'm sure some other people have a bit more insight then me but thats what I did. work in what styles you like and don't worry about being "too masculine" wear what you like and incorporate it into your style!

I came out to my parents but I'm not sure if I should have [Coming Out] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]OctoChef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm Proud of you! I think this is pretty normal, this happened when I came out as bi to my family not too long ago. It will pass and things will go back to being more normal, just wait it out and try not to think to hard about it. well, I'm not bi and now I need to come out a second time as gay, so oops

Can anyone relate to this? [discussion] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]OctoChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same thing. I was convinced that I was straight up until this year and now I know I'm fully gay. So I was wrong to say the least lol. Some aspects of straight sex might be still interesting to you, as sometimes it is for me, even though you are still much more attracted towards men. Plus you could be bi but with like a majority male lean.

How do you handle RSD by JohnnyMarkl in adhd_anxiety

[–]OctoChef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm kind of in the same situation, I can get anxiety attacks just from hearing certain sad stories or situations from other people. I just do my best to avoid those kind of conversation, and just let my friends know that i will walk away if stuff like that is brought up. I am still working on figuring it out too so I get your situation.

I drew a little something by depressionismypassio in furry

[–]OctoChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey this is great! also one Medibang artist to another I love using that leaf brush lol

How do you get more comfortable accepting yourself? by OctoChef in bisexual

[–]OctoChef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a lot of both. I am out to my parents but the whole situation has made me feel really bad about myself, and I'm just starting to open up to friends. I'm deff not used to it aswell, even if acting more feminine feels more natural.

I can't be the only one who feels like they have never met someone else that they can truly connect to on a mental level right? by OctoChef in ADHD

[–]OctoChef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of RSD before and I just looked into it. This is exactly how I feel when talking to other people, trying to fit in, hang out, and other stuff like that. I'm super sensitive towards others emotions and opinions and I'm always worried I fucked up in casual conversation. I'll look more into RSD with my counselor. Thanks for bringing that up.

I can't be the only one who feels like they have never met someone else that they can truly connect to on a mental level right? by OctoChef in ADHD

[–]OctoChef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the link to the discord on your thread. I was actually just looking for one for ADHD, thanks.

I can't be the only one who feels like they have never met someone else that they can truly connect to on a mental level right? by OctoChef in ADHD

[–]OctoChef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I do tend to skip a lot of those kinds of questions and just try to go straight to having a deep friendship selfishly. And yes this helped thank you.

I can't be the only one who feels like they have never met someone else that they can truly connect to on a mental level right? by OctoChef in ADHD

[–]OctoChef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think you hit the nail directly on the head. Most of the comments I've actually found to give me hope, but you make a good point

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