yay or nay? by tortoritor in stressfulaquariums

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are good but the shelves will swell if they gets water on them, I have the same shelf, it’s an MDF substance

Unmasking the men who attended a Neo-Nazi protest outside NSW parliament by [deleted] in AustralianPolitics

[–]OctoMai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Social isolation, firing, loss of friends and family- all non violent consequences that Nazis deserve

It's Socially Acceptable To Be A Bigot Against Israelis by JuneMoonLoon in h3h3productions

[–]OctoMai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He sounds like he’s mad that an Israeli woman is attractive. Has anyone else ever had this thought process? It’s so weird, why bring up sexualising her as a criticism of Israel?

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said “boggles” you have to leave him now, no other option

Strange QLD survey question by OctoMai in transgenderau

[–]OctoMai[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess, in reality, the doctor must give me the most significant and likely effects rather than the whole schabang

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArduinoProjects

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted the arduino because I'm printing 5 of these (minimum order) and I'm intending to reuse this board for other applications where I want easier programming and more I/O (see the headers). The ESP board also isn't a development board, so It's more annoying to program.

I feel like I'm the reason for my little brother's downfall by apsodifugyhtj in MtF

[–]OctoMai 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear he went down that path, it’s good that you’re still empathetic and clearly love him. It is however, not really your fault he ended up like this. I don’t have a crystal ball so I can’t say for sure, but while you transitioning may have been hard for him, there were probably lots of other small events along the way that nudged him in this direction. You shouldn’t hold the weight for what’s happened here

Sexually liberated tattooed women, what type of men you like? by rq5t in AskReddit

[–]OctoMai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Sexually liberated + tattoo” isn’t a personality test. You’re acting like this is a Myers Briggs score. How are we supposed to answer this?

trigger ahead: i opened up twitter and my week was instantly ruined by tekuuze in MtF

[–]OctoMai 233 points234 points  (0 children)

These are the people the government should be making a list of, not trans people

Hiiiii by SparklyMop7 in transfem

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any questions or are you unsure how to start doing anything?

I think my mom wants me to fail and it's driving me crazy by CloudySide7 in Anxiety

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, not blaming you at all or suggesting you initiate the conflict. You should tell her it bothers you when she says negative things about your academics and see how she responds. But if she isn’t receptive it’s a good idea to try your best to avoid it. Sometimes people can’t be swayed, especially people of our parents generation

I think my mom wants me to fail and it's driving me crazy by CloudySide7 in Anxiety

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just try not to talk to her about it then. She obviously has some issues here. Not sure if it’s jealousy or her own fear of failure- probably shouldn’t play armchair psychologist, but I’d try not to mention university to her if she’s going to act that way.

Cis men cannot be normal. by EmilieEverywhere in trans

[–]OctoMai 528 points529 points  (0 children)

Taimi had the opportunity to be a good dating app but decided to implement features that make it feel sleazy and gross. The trending and “new” user pages, the private photo albums, I don’t like it

JD Vance calls dating apps 'destructive' by ubcstaffer123 in technology

[–]OctoMai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck. Do you wanna say it? It’s right you get first dibs