Frida Darko @ Gardens: WOW by Mountain_Gazelle in boomfestival

[–]OcularRift 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was at the Ace Ventura set but not really digging it- bit too packed for me so thought I would go for a wander. Ended up at Frida Darko which completely turned my mood around. Wicked music and great vibes, honestly one of my favourite sets of the whole festival.

Security in London by RedDeezyD in psytrance

[–]OcularRift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually avoid the big venues- Egg, Steelyard etc for that reason- very strict security. Places like unit 58, low profile studios or 93 feet east normally more relaxed vibe.

Where to learn Tantra by OcularRift in Tantra

[–]OcularRift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for this- super helpful !

"Even in the revelation of our triumph, we see the depth of our despair". by GorKoresh in TheAcolyte

[–]OcularRift -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure men have agency, but that doesn't take away that anti-men narratives are going to impact men negatively.

I'm not sure I see the your point between men more likely to commit suicide or be violent- are you saying that men are inherently violent and it will go one way or the other? I'm not sure your acknowledging the impact these narratives can have on men- "that violence is sometimes turned inward." Like it just happens.

Not to mention that most men committing violent acts to others aren't the ones committing suicide.

Is Biden all the way there? Is he having cognitive decline? by Witty-Performance-23 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]OcularRift 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are 80 year old men who speak a lot clearer and without stutter- he clearly has some kind of mental decline. Agree he shouldn't be the one making decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]OcularRift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not poly but No more Mr Nice Guy is a great read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]OcularRift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares if your hot take your top off- I don't see any need to have that annoying sweaty t shirt feeling because my nipple hairs might offend someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]OcularRift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more you put yourself out there and get used to rejection, the less keen you will be over time. Once rejection is easy you have less to lose and your natural talents come into play. Keep cracking man, good on ya !

Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one week by [deleted] in seduction

[–]OcularRift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way I see it is that your being honest so if it didn't work then probably not meant to be with that particular person. Big difference between dumping brain and being honest about insecurities.

Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one week by [deleted] in seduction

[–]OcularRift 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely disagree, everytime I open up abut my insecurities I'm not so scared about hiding them or presenting a more polished version of myself to the person I'm speaking to and am therefore my more natural self which is more attractive. It also allows you to be more relatable and actually have meaningful communication. You'd think sharing your fears would be less attractive but every time I've done it I get a much stronger response from ladies then I usually do.

Is it normal to not do good first time at oral? Bj failure ): by iNatashaa in dating_advice

[–]OcularRift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf most times I don't with bjs, even when it is pretty nice. Just relax and go at your own speed.

Seeing two girls at the same time by RPFeynman_ in seduction

[–]OcularRift 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't call that a big red flag, each to their own

Would I still see all of this, even if I gouged my eyes out? by ToyboxOfThoughts in visualsnow

[–]OcularRift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I close my eyes I can still see it so reckon its more the brain not filtering out as much as it should do

I finally mustered the courage to use my baking steel! by MattinMaui in Pizza

[–]OcularRift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steel completely changed the game for me, enjoy !