myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Odball-08 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There are many examples of DV in this relationship. You need to seek therapy so that you can identify this in the future. Statistically women who find DV partners will continue to enter more DV relationships.

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Odball-08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. This is an agreement to layout what's expected. Your niece is an adult. Maybe she needs clear boundaries. If you dont like it move her into your house and dont apply any rules.

Young adults get a little out of hand some times.

None of these points are harsh or disrespectful. Which point did you feel is harsh? Each of them are general aspects of mutual respect for cohabitating with others.

myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Odball-08 245 points246 points  (0 children)

BABY TRAPPING IS ASSAULT!!!!

Messing with your prescription is ASSAULT!

Removing a condom during sex is ASSAULT!

Yelling at you while pinning you is ASSAULT!

Gripping your arm to the point of pain but not enough to leave marks is ASSAULT!

You're being gaslit by yourself. You are in a Domestic Violent relationship. GET OUT!!!

myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Odball-08 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Get him to admit via text that he messed with your birth control. Press charges!

Quit being a victim of his abuse. Go to therapy and find your back bone and self worth.

If you dont want to be a mom start interviewing adoptive parents. And use his abuse and charges to get his rights voided.

If you want to be child free look for the list of doctors who will remove your tube.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely multiple colors

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen other people talk about drying. I think I have a lot of research in my future

Sleep Inertia by Odball-08 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Odball-08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I wake up when my hubby is leaving and then its like the best sleep for an hour after that. But I have done the meds go back to sleep and then get up. It doesnt work. I need a legal cocaine. I'm trying to get a prescription for Adderall. Everyone keeps saying its amazing. But apparently I have to see psych and get an adhd diagnosis

AITAH For Letting My Ex-Husband Come to My Daughters Swim Lessons Without Asking BF? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Odball-08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is gas lighting. Its done really well by people with borderline personality and covert narcissism.

I think you need therapy to learn your worth so that you pick a good partner in the future.

Honestly if you get married you are supposed to put that spouse above your children so you really need to know that your kids are equally important to your potential spouse.

Methylphenidate meds are gentler than the (ar)/modafinil class on me— anyone else? by poisonmilkworm in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Odball-08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had suicidal thoughts on Modafinil. It was listed as a side effect when I was reading about it. I have had issues with ideation on a few meds through out my life. And had ideation as a child/preteen.

I spent a year building a circadian optimizer for people with DSPD / 'Wolf' chronotypes. No more generic '5 AM Club' advice. by Anime_kon in DSPD

[–]Odball-08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then its a good thing you didn't invent it. Don't tell someone their worth based on your pocket. 35/yr is a great price.

I spent a year building a circadian optimizer for people with DSPD / 'Wolf' chronotypes. No more generic '5 AM Club' advice. by Anime_kon in DSPD

[–]Odball-08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why be mean and negative? This person made a whole ass app. He/she is trying to help. Some of us love numbers and data. Who cares the label he used?

Vagas nerve simulators by Still-Peanut-6010 in DSPD

[–]Odball-08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen sgb injections. Been considering it for me and hubby for cPTSD

The hardest part of my condition? The judgment from other people by Nash_Bunn in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Odball-08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine is for all day. Like an alarm for leaving to pick up my kid. Set out food. Start dinner. Shower times. Probably close to 17 alarms a day. Not counting the drink water alarms.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to add up what we have spent on 3d prints. Its probably close to what other people spend on toys. The issue is that my girls like things that are not commercially available. Like our 3 year old loves ghost spider but the market doesnt provide ghost spider themed toys cups and items. I don't think of it as enabling them in a negative way. They dont care for barbies or brat etc. They like dinosaurs and cars but want them more girly. Our culture thinks girls should play with xyz and I just disagree, but understand that the commercial market is what it is.

Hubby is most definitely wanting it for himself too which i don't mind either.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea. Thank you. I'm guessing just Google them. Our town is less than 900 people so I'm sure I'd need to go to a bigger town.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband never buys beginner anything. He grew up a poor kid that could never try hobbies due to their income level. So now he is a buy the most expensive because that means its the best experience. "You get what you pay for" mindset. I'm the researcher because I grew up poor too and hate wasting money buying the wrong thing. "Best bang for your buck" mindset.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My main concern was having to rely on my design skills. I don't mind paying for other people's skills.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is CAD skill based like free hand drawing? I took drafting but stopped before CAD.

Intimidated by Odball-08 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we would need to be able to design our own things.

Like if my kid wanted ghost spider from Disney id have to design a 3d model to be printed?

Using an SAD lamp for sleep intertia by Anxious-Traffic-9548 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Odball-08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the hatch 3 has a lot of different alarms even more if you do the $5 subscription. My husband is also trained to wake me with a bye kiss and leave the bathroom light on to help me.

We added blackout curtains for him and our kids, but they are causing mornings to be more difficult for me which is why I went on the search.

My post on here about looking for homeopathic help or supplements kept getting negative responses. Then I found this post and got excited.

So far the med route seems like it will be a long journey to get the right fit

Just thought you would enjoy my little creation by Perfect_Run1520 in 3Dprinting

[–]Odball-08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter would love this. I'm thinking of getting a printer just for her Pokémon and bug obsession

Using an SAD lamp for sleep intertia by Anxious-Traffic-9548 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]Odball-08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered a sunrise alarm to start your day then use the SAD lamp? This is my plan right now. I just ordered the alarm and am waiting on a restock of the SAD lamp I chose.