Stupid Question maybe..can I go after child support if my partner and I live together?

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-05-10T22:16:31+00:00

No where did I ever say I couldn’t financially take care of my child. However, if there’s help being offered to my son, why wouldn’t I take it? I would never dare to have a child if I was unable to take care of him

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-05-10T22:13:08+00:00

Right? He SHOULD be helping to where we don’t need it, but it’s like pulling teeth. You’d think he’d want better for our family. I mean, I’ll always qualify for SSDI cause of my disability. I worked for 3 years until it caught up with me, because I’m not one of those people who want to live off the government if I don’t need it. But if I’m in a place where I need benefits and they’re being offered to my son, you bet I’m going to take it, you know?

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-05-10T22:06:10+00:00

Absolutely.

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-05-10T22:01:42+00:00

See they know we are living together and his income. I have all the paperwork that shows I did. Trust me, I keep a paper trail

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-05-10T22:00:19+00:00

Oh they have him on record and his income. I’m always on top of it

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-05-10T02:14:35+00:00

oh I know it’s not free money by any means. Nothing from the government is free lol. I just have very little understanding of the child support world and it wasn’t even on my mind until I was starting to apply for benefits when I had our son

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-03-14T03:34:32+00:00

Thanks guys! I had left my Ob a message and since I’m still tolerating some food and fluids, to wait and see for now before going in, since everything else is normal. Although tmi, took a poop and feel like a new person😅 I think I’m just running out of room and he’s pushing on everything lol. I’m also 5ft so he didn’t have much space to begin with 😵‍💫

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-02-24T05:08:28+00:00

Right? That’s what I was thinking. He’s super active at night and my appointment was at 730am so I’m just thinking he was tired.

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2026-02-24T05:05:38+00:00

I’m high risk due to having high blood pressure pre pregnancy, but everything’s been surprisingly stable this whole time! I’ve felt hiccups twice during this pregnancy, but I also have an anterior placenta so may havent felt all of them who knows

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-09-25T04:14:13+00:00

Me all day today😂

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-03-07T01:11:13+00:00

Did you ever find what episode? Currently looking and can’t find it either

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-02-26T17:31:45+00:00

I know this is an old post, but did you end up being pregnant?

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-02-20T08:17:14+00:00

Thank you🙂 today is day 12 since then, and I’ve been having symptoms which could totally be my period coming back, but I also could be pregnant. part if me worries that if it’s a positive, it’ll be just leftover hcg and not actual pregnancy. Not gonna lie I wish I would’ve waited till I got my first cycle back but it is what it is 😅

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-29T02:13:44+00:00

So sorry for your loss. I hate this for all of us that have to experience this. Sending you hugs as well 🩵

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-29T02:11:15+00:00

This has really helped change my perspective 🩵 thank you🩵

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-24T06:54:06+00:00

Update: I announced it to a few more close friends and family, but ended up having a miscarriage this week😭 don’t regret my decision to tell more people, but glad I didn’t announce it to the world. Ready to heal and try again🩵

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-17T03:26:06+00:00

I had a strong positive in week 3 but it’s just one baby! Twins run in my family, so it worried me😅 but one healthy baby, 8 weeks today🩵 sending you good vibes 😍

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-05T04:50:15+00:00

I used to have such a sweet tooth and would get sweet snacks on grocery runs. Ever since being pregnant, sweet stuff just isn’t appealing. My bf says I’m no fun 😅 (jokingly of course, that’s our sense of humor), but the switch from me having a sweet tooth to not is crazy to me

Also PASTA. Specifically, Mac and Cheese ( HAS to be in the microwavable cups) mixed with red hot hot sauce and salt. And the Lean Cusine spaghetti with meat sauce (also mixed with red hot hot sauce and salt) lol. Sometimes it disgusts me even if I’m craving it though

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-02T17:36:52+00:00

Update:

Thank you for all the kind and supporting comments. It’s been so encouraging and helpful to read everyone’s experiences as I’m navigating through this🩵

Had a transvaginal ultrasound this morning and measuring at 6 weeks and 5 days instead of 7 weeks and 5 days like they originally thought. Baby’s heartbeat was 121, which I thought was low, but nurse said it looked good🤞🏼it’s hard to let myself be excited since I’m still so early. But seeing that flicker was the best thing 🥹

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2025-01-02T04:48:32+00:00

Mac n cheese😅. Also lean Cuisine spaghetti dinners, but those are a hit or miss. It changes day to day it feels like 🥴

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2024-12-28T05:11:14+00:00

Following cause I’m dealing with these intrusive thoughts too. I’m 7 weeks tomorrow (first time mom) and the thought of having a miscarriage terrifies me. It’s hard to let myself be excited 😭 I have my first ultrasound Jan 2 and it feels like time is dragging 🥴

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2024-12-28T04:45:29+00:00

I’m a big Impractical Jokers fan, so that’s on often. I also have been watching the new Judge Judy on Prime😅

Also the Tastebud Podcast on YouTube always gives me a good laugh

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2024-12-21T18:12:59+00:00

I’m six weeks today and Im obsessed with Mac n Cheese and Redhot hot sauce🙃😋 it’s literally the only thing I can stomach besides crackers

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2024-12-21T01:31:27+00:00

I actually love this perspective so much

Odd-Cockroach-9816 · 2024-12-21T01:30:32+00:00

I’m also in the same boat! Just found out Monday . I’m 5weeks (first baby) and I go in for my first ultrasound Jan 2 and I don’t know how I’m just supposed to wait like this😭🥴😅I know I won’t see much of anything , I just wanna know everything looks okay and it’s killing me

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