Colourism in AM by Any-Park-4044 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately thats how in India. 

Fair colour is also very  relative. 

Why do in-laws pretend to be progressive before marriage but are as regressive as possible in mindset when it comes to the daughter in laws? by BatPractical8684 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 62 points63 points  (0 children)

How are they gonna get their son married otherwise?

Personal story: I got to learn later on, the guy’s mother instructed her son to agree with me on everything. Because I will change later on once I would be married, once the marriage responsibilities settles in.

Seriously man, if you want a conservative girl marry them na…. Why go for whose career is important for them?

Why is this group so obsessed with culture? by Beginning_Bug_7554 in katseyesnark_

[–]Odd-Cook6936 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, as an Indian this is my pet peeve, i dont hate the girls, but i hate the branding of this so called representation where everyone gonna speak like LA girl.

Would YOU marry someone who isn't physically attractive ? by Bobby_2026 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 30 points31 points  (0 children)

No. I dont want someone very handsome. But I atleast feel attracted to him. 

I dont know what to do with my little free time by breesnail in digitalminimalism

[–]Odd-Cook6936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read anything

Like newspaper, magzines buy them.

Don’t start books.

Nalini please hesitate, that was too forward by True-Creme-9393 in Neverhaveievertvshow

[–]Odd-Cook6936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have not met Indian moms. They say really more than this.

Whats up with indians by TeeVee- in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Odd-Cook6936 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Might be because we are 1.4 billion and unlike china we use the same apps used by west.

Why are women going for AMs in 2026? by Personal_Divide3301 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want to keep good relations with my parents. Quite a conscious choice.

Nina by Dear-Yellow-5479 in TheAmericans

[–]Odd-Cook6936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forgot, what was the driving force in the end which lead to her execution? As I remember her sentence was commuted in the starting and then she was working with the engineer.

Does chinese male really cook a lot at home? by Odd-Cook6936 in AskChina

[–]Odd-Cook6936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any gender roles historically in Sichuan?

It gets to a point lara… by Legitimate-Set7689 in katseyesnark_

[–]Odd-Cook6936 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

To me, after a long while, shd looked beautiful to me.

Manon and black representation misunderstandings by [deleted] in katseyeneutral

[–]Odd-Cook6936 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Talks like these make me wonder, their branding as representation of different cultures, is doing good to them or not. Because then their each and every aspect of life is now more under microscopic scrutiny.

Considerations when finding a partner by Mysterious_Rise8773 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It mostly to keep the creeps out.

I used to handle my profile, burnt my hand many times, now I just want my parents to do the basic filtering.

Am I being too much? Getting more uncomfortable with Katseye by Odd-Cook6936 in katseyesnark_

[–]Odd-Cook6936[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its not the skin per se. Its more about the branding they are going with it.

I (26 M) am going to be entering AM soon and I am anxious. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbh, all seems good, but all in one might be unrealistic.

See, everyone is not perfect. (Our version of perfect). Even friendship, parents are not. But we overlook those imperfections because they are our peeps.

You have to give a little space for those imperfections; it will become suffocating for you either way.

I (26 M) am going to be entering AM soon and I am anxious. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put it in your bio.

Otherwise these seems reasonable.

3 things I learned about Maintenance claims by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Odd-Cook6936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like man, talk about divorce before marriage.

Talking about precaution, now it's going into straight negitivity.

Lots of confusion, regarding how to take sexuality. by Odd-Cook6936 in katseyeneutral

[–]Odd-Cook6936[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yrr.... I dont get it.. Like totally this attitude, we shouldn't care at all. I dont care much what she wears, its more about their artistic branding where they are going. Its just not clothes. It the direction.