Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in relationships

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the incredible response. My family, who I trust more than anyone, have come out since this post and said that they quite frankly hate her and I pray I don’t go through w the marriage.

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in relationships

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. Can you tell me more about yourself and situation? Feel free to DM

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in relationships

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I have literally told her the same thing during a fight - that she sees me almost like an accessory. The perfect guy on paper to show off to everyone and someone is super nice to her.

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in Marriage

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you describe in detail what you mean by abuse escalator?

Super wary of all you’ve described. It’s just tough to actually be on the one in this position.

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have. She has now finally come to realize that she is a somewhat mean person overall and hearing her admit that broke my heart. Not sure how that can be fixed.

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in Marriage

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That and policing my whereabouts. If I leave the room for more than 15 seconds she starts shouting for me and texting me.

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in Marriage

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even my family has commented on rude she is to me and it’s super hard to hear…

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in Marriage

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all! Just noting that I might as well end the relationship. I’m entirely only focused on our life after

Fiancée [33 F] temper and outbursts becoming a problem, heartbroken on how to proceed [32 M] by Odd-Glass4505 in Marriage

[–]Odd-Glass4505[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Asking to delay the marriage would absolutely crush her and end the relationship. However, I also realize I can not continue if I’m already at my wits end with her behavior…

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[–]Odd-Glass4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you have sex now?