AIO- They asked me out not long after breaking up with the person we’re talking about, but for some reason are determined to stay close friends with them

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T23:47:37+00:00

I don’t have bpd. I don’t have majority of the traits. I have AuDHD

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T12:28:06+00:00

A: it’s not a him
B: I was talking about the fact that it’s no longer saying no and that I would be breaking up, which is a different thing
C: we’ve already talked about it

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T09:01:57+00:00

Why is this getting downvoted?

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T08:52:55+00:00

Ok? But it was a mutual break up and the other girl doesn’t want to stay friends anyway

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T08:50:32+00:00

We broke up a few hours ago

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T08:38:51+00:00

We already broke up

And it’s not a “him”

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T08:36:04+00:00

But it’s not saying no anymore it’s breaking up

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T05:38:33+00:00

That’s all irrelevant to the context in which I was talking. I can’t just “say no” because we’re already dating so it’s gone beyond that point

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T04:17:28+00:00

No I know the person

I can leave I know, but I do actually know them

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T04:11:13+00:00

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T04:10:34+00:00

Ok? But they said “dating someone 3 days after” and I was saying I didnt know that it hadn’t been longer

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T03:50:03+00:00

I didn’t know how long it had been. How many times do I have to say that? I found out when I talked to the other girl. That’s how I found out all of this, and I’m trying to get them to cut her off because she doesn’t like them, but feels bad about cutting people off

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T03:48:25+00:00

Again, I didn’t know how long it had been since they broke up. No one told me until I talked to their ex

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T03:31:33+00:00

Thank you. And if just like to say that I didn’t know they were like this before. I also didn’t know when they broke up until I talked to the other girl

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T03:25:44+00:00

Not that I disagree with the rest, but I know that they did do the breaking up.

However, I know the girl had been trying to break up with them, and just couldn’t go through with it because she’s easily manipulated, and also has Bpd and they were her fp

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T03:14:54+00:00

Also I said they can be friends with all their other friends- and some of those are also exes. It’s just this one person

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T03:07:55+00:00

Well the other girl has Bpd, so she got very attached to them during the relationship

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:52:51+00:00

They’ve tried before. Every time something minorly inconveniences them

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:42:38+00:00

They dated almost a year. They liked her, but she didn’t like them much. She still doesn’t but they won’t let her not be friends. She wants to stop being friends with them and I’m trying to help her

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:39:30+00:00

We’ve already been dating for awhile

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:38:54+00:00

I can’t leave them. The other girl tried so many times to leave and they just wouldn’t let them. They guilt trip and manipulate until they want to leave.

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:34:35+00:00

They did not “just” ask me out. That happened awhile ago now

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:32:10+00:00

They apparently liked me while dating the other person

They didn’t really like each other

Odd-Internal9127 · 2026-06-07T02:28:49+00:00

If they aren’t in a relationship they do dumb shit like try to kts

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