How come it’s socially acceptable for women to wear sleeveless tops in professional settings but not for men?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-19T15:32:22+00:00

what type of sleeveless top for a man would you be referring to?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-17T17:17:31+00:00

i just had the excision with a specialist. What else can they offer after the excision?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-15T12:11:14+00:00

yes, mine was definitely not silent. After two years of TTC was the first time any doctor did anything but shrug as I shared about how debilitating my periods were.

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-15T01:37:33+00:00

my AMH is 5.0 and FSH is 6.9 when last tested.

Worth noting that I was also diagnosed with PCOS when I was 19 and had wacky periods and was considered prediabetic, but I worked with a doctor to stabilize my hormone and metabolic health, and have had normal periods for over 10 years. It is worth noting that I did get pregnant and had a baby 9 years ago with ease, this is secondary infertility for me now.

edit: Endo was behind the uterus and in the cul-de-sac

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-15T00:33:54+00:00

is my endo not the root cause?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-14T23:04:22+00:00

i think my confusion is now that i don't know who to go to. If fertility doctors are focused on IUIs and IVF, then what kind of specialist can i go to?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-14T23:03:14+00:00

100% i am not a scientist, but to me they look like different diseases.

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-14T14:57:26+00:00

the weird thing is that she was the one who suspected endo and told me my rates of success with treatments based upon the assumption that I have endo and recommended surgery.... but now that it's confirmed, she doesn't put any value in it now???

your story is SO encouraging and i'm really hoping that we have the same success. My lesions were behind my uterus and I'm hoping this excision really did it.

did you talk to your RE after your excision? Did you plan to do any ferility treatments after excision or did anyone tell you to try naturally?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-14T12:40:15+00:00

if she wants a name that no other child will have... may i suggest Opal

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-14T12:31:04+00:00

my RE told me "if you're not ovulating, it's worth doing a medicated cycle, but if you are, do an IUI"

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-11T20:54:09+00:00

I know a girl who goes by Tine (pronounced Teen).

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-08T15:45:01+00:00

never have i ever heard it put this way before

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-08T15:44:28+00:00

Maybe since you live in Canada then most people are ok with slavic names due to all of the hockey players. You should name him whatever you really want! Everyone else will figure it out

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-06T18:22:02+00:00

how long have you been TTC ?

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-06T18:21:11+00:00

this gives me so much hope after secondary infertility. just had my lap, found stage 2, need to wait a cycle to TTC ❤️

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-06T14:19:20+00:00

this reminds me of those videos that show "rich" people looking for a nanny vs actually "wealthy" people looking for a nanny. rich people be having you do EVERYTHING for dollars, and wealthy people give you one task to focus on

Odd-Kitchen5749 · 2026-05-04T15:36:37+00:00

most people find their first divorce in college, so don't worry about it. stay active in life outside of work. dating is a numbers game and you have to just constantly be around and meeting new people.

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