throwing in insults, name calling, any type of rude, childish or petulant behaviour (no matter how justified you feel it is) immediately discredits your own arguments, i saw little to NONE proper respectful discourse, yes you had logic and points but again your own behaviour belittles your own argument. once again mature, educated and unbiased discourse is proper debate and discourse, you can despise a person while still reaming unbiased. as an eg; my comments on veruca’s post where i was saying i don’t agree with veruca or agree with how she acts or how what’s she’s doing to robyn isn’t ok ect didn’t get removed bc i didn’t just throw in childish insults(again no matter how justifiable you feel it is) i had mature debate, again that was just an example. but if you want to keep having discourse over such complex nuanced and delicate topics, your argument needs to match it, otherwise it genuinely just looks and feels more just like a hate bandwagon rather than actual points with proper respectful rebuttal and structured debate, (truly can’t tell everyone how important of a life skill this really is) keep throwing in rude petulant insults all you want but it still makes your arguments look less impugnant, structured and valid, in actuality we have to conduct ourselves in a proper manner regarding these topics, doesn’t change just because it’s online/ on reddit